Dirty talk… It’s time to give it a try…

Today we’re having a different talk,  a dirty talk… Are you using dirty words in sex or as a foreplay in your relationship? No? Maybe you should try it…

Since one of the most important things in a relationship is communication, it only makes sense that when things get hot and heavy, you should continue to have a dialogue. Yes, I’m suggesting dirty talk, and yes, if you haven’t given it a try during sex or foreplay, it’s time. It’s actually less scary than it seems.

Whether you choose to talk dirty in bed, via sexting, or like to indulge in good old-fashioned phone sex, talking dirty is definitely something everyone should try. Here are 5 hot reasons why:

1. Helps you learn what you are comfortable with.  It can make some people feel vulnerable to put themselves out there in such a vocal way, and then there are those who just can’t say certain words, like “pussy,” or “cock,” which, to be honest, are the words you’re often going for when you’re talking dirty. There’s also the challenge of overcoming how you view words in the real world and how your view them in the bedroom. 

2. It’s awesome foreplay. As any doctor or sex therapist will tell you, foreplay is an extremely important part of sex, especially for women. It takes women far longer to get aroused than men, and that’s why they don’t orgasm as quickly as men do. For us, foreplay is essential. If you can start with some dirty talk, then you’ll be tantalizing each other in ways that are just as important as physical foreplay. Quickies are fun, but if you have the time to take your time, then do it. Set aside a full 20 minutes of just talking dirty to each other before you even remove your clothes and touch each other. You’ll see the difference it makes.

3. You will totally surplised yourself. It’s always nice when you can still surprise yourself, isn’t it? And the thing is, when you push yourself to do something that you’ve never done, you just might realize it was made for you. Talking graphically about how you want to be touched and how you’re going to touch your partner might revolutionize your sex life — but you’ll ever find out unless you give it a try.

4. You will surprised your mate. There are plenty of ways to spice things up in your long-term relationshipwhen things are feeling a bit stale. If your sex life has become the stuff of missionary right before bed, then talking dirty to your partner is an easy way to switch things up a bit. Chances are the dirty things you’ve been thinking, but haven’t said out loud yet, will truly surprise them. You can whisper in your partner’s ear, making sure your lips just slightly graze their earlobe. From there, depending on their response, you can continue, or let them take over and tell you what they’re thinking, too.

5. It leads to better sex. If you’re talking honestly, openly, and graphically about what you want to get out of every sexual experience, how can it not lead to better sex? With communication and all this dirty talk, there are no secrets — and neither you nor your partner is forced to try to figure out what that moan or facial expression really means. Sex shouldn’t be a riddle.


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Swinging: Would you ever try it?

American-flag-With-Heart-Shape-PC881026-05-2016, Our American Articles

A new modern way of sexual freedom for couples called swinging is came up before some years and a lot of couples said why not… While the term “swinging” may be a throwback to the 70s and the days of Plato’s Retreat, more and more modern couples are hooking up with other couples, either informally or through networks or clubs.  And, of course, like all things online, the Internet has amplified these opportunities and made it easier to find couples and clubs in a neighborhood near you. As with most sexual activities, there haven’t been many studies into the prevalence of swinging – and many people who do it don’t necessarily want to admit it – but some experts believe that there could be as many 15 million Americans swinging on a regular basis. Chances are you have a friend or neighbor who is swinging. Read more

Sex toys help your relationship & your health…

Have you ever use sex toys? How often do you use them? Are helpful for your sexual life?

The question of the day is are these toys just for fun or are there other benefits as well? One of the biggiest is who if anyone would receive them? Believe it or not your relationship status comes into play.

For single people in addition to the good feelings there are a few interesting health benefits:

  •   Stress relief since endorphins are released in the brain during orgasm.
  •   It burns calories! While it is known that a sex session burns a good amount of calories the same is true when using a vibrator. Maybe not as many as an hour or so with a partner but it increases your heart rate. This has the same benefit as an hour long cardio workout and it sure as hell is more enjoyable than going to the gym?
  • Remember those endorphins which reduce stress? They can also help you to cope with pain be it physical or emotional.

So if you’re a single lady knock yourself using a sex toy,it’s a great way to get your orgasm and improve your health at the same time.

What if you are in a relationship though? Can they help there as well? The answer is a resounding yes.

One of the main benefits is that it adds a new dimension to what can become a routine. Even though we might not like to admit it the longer you’re in a relationship the more of a “chore” sex can become. Some people still find it hard to talk about what it is they really want when it comes to sex since this will avoid hurting the feelings of their partner but it surprising how people can lose their inhibitions when sex toys are used. They will make things become more adventurous in the bedroom. I myself enjoy using my toys while my partner watches or they use them on me as well. In addition to being a bit different it adds the “feeling” of a third person which some couples may want to explore later.

As you can see, the benefits of using sex toys far outweigh any disadvantages whether you are single or in a relationship. If you’re a single lady keep up what you’re doing. If you are in a relationship and currently don’t use toys talk to your partner and bring them in slowly.

Just remember that the biggest reason to use a sex toy is quite simply because they are fun so why not?


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Pearling: New sex trend…

Do you know what is pearling? Is a new, latest sex trend that came up.  There’s nothing new under the sun, but “pearling” is something doctors are warning others not to do. While pearling might sound like the sport of seeking pearls inside of oysters, this type of pearling is far from that practice.

There’s a Sex and the City episode where Samantha Jones wears a pearl thong, compliments of her boyfriend Richard. She’s thrilled at first. The beads tickle her vagina and arouse her to no end. But, when she runs in said pearly thongs, the experience is less than pleasant.

That’s kind of what happens when you’ve “pearled.”

Pearling involves putting plastic beads inside the penis via the skin of the penis. When you pearl, more parts of the genitals are stimulated; therefore it aids in a man’s arousal. It also titillates a man’s lover — vaginally and anally — and stimulates the clitoris.

Taking schlong enhancement to strange new levels, men are popping pearls into their penises to help them pleasure women. Genital beading involves inserting a small ball, often made of plastic or metal, beneath the skin of the penis via a small incision.

It apparently makes women “go mad with pleasure” because it stimulates the clitoris, but this could be a myth as the pearl is usually placed at the tip of the penis while it should be placed at the base to really stimulate the area.

The procedure, also known as pearling, is a form of body modification similar to inserting a subdermal implant, but alarmingly the surgery is usually performed at-home and without proper hygiene precautions.

The bizarre sex trend is becoming increasingly prevalent in Cuba, according to Vice Spain, as well as Australia and the Philippines.

It’s most common among young men in the military, sailors and convicts. And while nowadays men are choosing to insert the pearls for sexual satisfaction, the craze is said to have originated in Asia with Yakuza members performing pearling during their stints in prison.

But, it’s a very bad idea! Pearling can cause chronic pain, infection and damage to the urethra. Over time it can even cause erectile dysfunction. So if you want to experiment with sex, skip pearling all together and venture into sex toys like anal thongs or anal beads. It’s the safer choice. For those done at home, the health risks increase exponentially, because the person is often untrained about the anatomy of a penis, how deep to make the incisions, what types of tools to use and how to sanitise them properly.


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Marriage & sex: The frequency is important?

Yesterday  I was having dinner with a group of friends. Most were married, but there were a handful of singles. Somehow the discussion turned to the frequency of married sex. The conversation was driven by the singles—ones that longed to eventually be married—who were curious. How many times a week? How many times a month?


The frequency of sex among married couples depends on how old they are. One survey looked at the sex lives of married people by age. They found that:

1.Between 18-29, married people had sex 112 times a year, or a little over twice a week.

2.Between 30-39, they had sex 86 times a year, or about seven times a month.

3.Between 50-59, they had sex 69 times a year, or a little under six times a month.

Sex appears to declines further as couples get older. Although frustrated married people can romanticize the sex lives of swinging singles, studies show that married people have more sex than single people. While married people 18-29 have sex over nine times a month, single people average a little under six a month. It makes sense — married people have a potential sexual partner in bed with them every night. Singles often sleep alone.

Although, another research about happiness and sex in couples shows that more frequent sex is not always associated with greater happiness and that it’s important to maintain an intimate connection with your partner, without having sex everyday, as long as you’re maintaining that connection, we believe that sex is one of the bigger element in relationships. It keeps the flame alive and gives the strength to continue with love and hapiness to a long distance common life…

They are also spreading the urban legend that sex is best when you have plenty of it with plenty of partners. But, one of the best kept secrets, not even in the romantic hideaways of ski lodges or beach resorts.  The best sex is not sex in the city but is in the bedrooms of people who are married for life. Don’t believe it?

Only in the latter and most sexually boring category (no sex or sex only a few times per year) do non-married adults rate higher than their married counterparts. In other words, married couples have sex far more frequently than single or cohabiting adults.

Is There a Normal Amount?

No. It depends on each individual couple. There may be an average amount, but no “normal.” I have seen surveys suggesting an average frequency of sex for married couples to be around a couple of times a month (once every 7-10 days). That doesn’t mean that this is a number to aspire to or judge your marriage upon. What is normal and overwhelming are marriages with at least one partner who doesn’t think they are doing it enough.

The key to a healthy sexual marriage is finding a frequency that works for both of you. It takes a sacrificial love for one another. Investment grows desire. One partner with a low sex drive may need to initiate, even when they don’t feel like it. Interestingly, having sex regularly raises the level of testosterone which increases desire.

It’s like exercising. The more it’s done, the higher the desire becomes to do it. On the other hand, the other partner may need to sacrifice their expectations and sexual needs. There has to be a meeting somewhere in the middle. All of this comes down to communication and to understanding. Talk and listen to one another. Seek to know each other, serve each other and love before being loved.


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5 top sex tips to please your girlfriend…

Do you know which are best 5 foreplay sex tips to please your lovely girlfriend? Here they are:

1.Try this great warmup

 The precoital massage: As a warmup to the main event, start by massaging the length of her legs, from her upper thighs down to her ankles. Then focus on the feet, kneading her heels and all other points beneath. Then zero in on the toes and stretch them individually. Of course, if her impeccable hygiene encourages you to suck her toes, you’ll have her in ecstasy.

2. Ask what turns her on

Come right out and ask what she likes during sex. “Most women appreciate men who want to make sure they’re satisfied,” says Barbara Bartlik, M.D., a professor of psychiatry at Cornell University. “If she notices you’re working hard to please her, she’ll be more likely to return the favor.” And tell us: Is there a better place to develop your work ethic?

3. Best position for hitting the G-spot

Most experts say that G-spot stimulation works best when you do it by hand, since it allows for more subtle manipulation. But that means less fun for you. To get at her G-spot during intercourse, enter her doggy-style from the rear.

4.Kissing keeps her going

You’re close, really close, but you’re forgetting what got you here in the first place. Just remember that passionate kissing doesn’t always mean frantically swabbing out her tonsils. Try to mix up your tongue play with the occasional closed-mouth kiss on her nose, eyes, and forehead.

5.Reward her bravery

When she initiates the action, make an extra effort to please her sexually and to let her know how much you approve. Tell her you loved her initiation. Sometimes women wonder if you’re going to perceive initiation as negative or if it might make you uncomfortable.

25 Flaming HOT Sex Tips to keep passion alive!

Regardless of whether you’re in a relationship or just dating at the moment, these sex tips are something that will help you keep passion alive and burning!

  • Don’t ignore his nipples…
  • Men like daring women so go explore and take initiatives sexually!
  • Women love massages, candles, soft words and a man who caresses them.
  • Men adore lingerie and a woman who loves wearing it.
  • They ALSO enjoy it when she “accidentally” forgets to wear it while out for the evening.
  • Booze-less sex is better! Drunken Sex means your senses are not as alive and there are good chances he won’t remember you the next day!
  • Make time for daytime sex! Sex before bed can become a routine, plus you are usually too tired to get creative…
  • Sext!
  • Always listen to what your partner says they enjoy during sex- they say it for a reason.
  • connect, listen, be there: that’s how you will read each other’s feeling and you will not have to ask.
  • After your man gets home from work, bring him a drink. He needs time to unwind, not 50 questions.

  • Men: after your orgasm sex is NOT over!
  • Scream out every now and then-let the neighbors get jealous. It is ok.
  • Don’t ask someone if they would like to have sex! Be bold people!
  • Complement your partner and make them feel really good about themselves, especially their bodies (for women and men!)
  • Shave her legs or paint her toenails every so often- you will surprised of what may follow…
  • Dress sexy for them, even at home. Especially at home…
  • Tell each other what you desire in bed. Guide each other with your hands. You are human, not a starfish. So don’t just lie there.
  • Confidence is the biggest turn on!
  • Take your time during sex; don’t be in a rush for the finish line. Let yourself be surprised of what new might happen, even if you are together for years. Especially if you are together for years!
  • Don’t assume that one orgasm is all they are good for. (That goes for men too, ladies.)
  • Have sex outside the friggin bedroom!
  • Make-out on the couch, elevator or the car like a teenager if you’ve been together for a while.
  • Tell them often that you love and want them. Don’t assume they know. Like confidence, honestly spoken words like that can be the biggest turn on…
  • Read or watch something sexy together to spice things up if you feel like your sex life is becoming repetitive.

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Spicy survey: 4 men’s favorite sex positions

11-05-2016, Our English Articles

Harriet Brookes- SPICY SURVEY

Sex and especially the way we do sex is the “mirror of our relationship”… The truth is that sex is an important aspect of every relationship – sometimes even more important than we would dare to admit. A recent survey found that men aren’t as prudish and traditional as you might think. The poll of 800 adults across the UK found that men’s favourite sex position is Doggy Style. The on-all-fours move was voted as the sexiest position in this survey. However, which other positions send men crazy? Read here all the best to help you get some serious brownie points in the bedroom: Read more

Sex on the first date?

Here is how you will make it happen!

Its note easy and it has to be mutually desired, but hek why not? You can actually end up having sex on the first date, as long as you play your cards right!
Here are some tips on how to make her want to have sex on the first date with YOU:

1.  Be creative: Create a sensual and warm atmosphere
If you want to get yourself some first date sex, then you have to get sexy creative and create a sensual mood for the night.  Create an atmosphere where you can be alone with her without a lot of interruptions.  A quite booth in the corner of a restaurant can be all that you need to start things off just right with her. BUT: no matter what you do, keep in mind that the mood of the evening is one of the biggest determining factors of whether or not she will end up in YOUR bed…

2.  Be smart: not all talk should be sexual.
When you have her close to you and you are deep in conversation with her, it’s okay to throw in some sexual undertones to the back and forth banter, BUT,  you do not want to come on too strong with the sex talk.  If she thinks that the only thing on your mind is getting her in your bedroom, you most likely will not get what you want. Women are pretty protective of their image, and certainly not stupid, so if she thinks that all you are trying to do is tag another notch above your bedpost, well, she will hit the ground running.

3.  Be intimate: share something intimate with her.

Whether it’s a conversation about something intimate, or a physical act like a slow dance, you want to share some intimate experience with her before you try and get intimate in the way that YOU really want to.  When you have already shared a little intimacy in one form, it’s easier and more natural to share it in the physical form as well.

4. Be bold: kiss her first and do it good
Kissing is a natural prelude to sex, so you want to show her what you got in the kissing department.  Don’t wait for the moment when you want to lead her into your bedroom for you to go for the first kiss.  Instead, kiss her earlier in the evening and then make your move to take the kissing a little further as the night goes on.

5. Be generous: enjoy a long foreplay.
Don’t just rush into intercourse, you just met the girl for heavens sake! Take it slower and start with the foreplay with her.  Run your hands up and down her legs nice and slowly and kiss her on the neck and down her chest.  When you show her that the evening is all about pleasing her, she won’t feel like you are just out to get a little action.  She will feel that the two of you are sharing something more genuine and special, and something that she will enjoy as much as you will!


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Is having sex with your ex a good or bad idea? 

Are you thinking about your ex… and especially the sex with him/her… Stop!!! Before you go back havimg sex with your ex mate just consider some points and then decide wheather is good or bad to moveon this step…

“Should you have sex with your ex ?” If you are asking this question, chances are that you think that by having sex with your ex you will be able to rekindle his/her love for you again. However, you must reconsider you decision to avoid making a wrong move.

Concerning women, once they have sex with their ex, they normally feel that they are back together with their ex; however this isn’t the case for men. You must understand that men think differently when it comes to relationship.

First, it’s important to note that men value what is rare. In other words, the things that men work for are the only things that are important to them. This simply means that a man will commit to a woman he feels is rare. Therefore, if you make yourself special, valuable and rare, your ex will become committed to you. That is why you must not sleep with him until you both have reunited. This doesn’t mean you have to “pressure” him to reunite. The idea of getting back together must be his. At the same time, you must avoid having sex with him. 

Having sex with your ex is a tempting proposition sometimes but just before you call your ex and have sex with him or her,  read 7 reasons why  it’s a bad idea.


Before you have sex with your ex, you need to remember you broke up with your ex for a reason. Having sex with your ex won’t fix things but would only end up complicating things between you and your ex.


You would find it really difficult moving on if you continue to have sex with your ex. You might say it’s just casual sex but the truth is that the more sex you have with your ex, the harder it will become for you to move on.


Having sex with your ex is like a disaster waiting to happen. When you have sex with your ex, the sex sometimes makes one of the two to still expect exclusivity and this only complicate things.


Why complicate things in your life when there are lots of other people you can choose to have sex with? Why go back to have sex with someone who rejected you? Doing this would only destroy your self-esteem.


You can’t move on to someone better if you keep having sex with your ex. Having sex with your ex strengthens the bond with your ex and makes it difficult for you to move on.


Having sex with your ex will only bring back memories you really want to forget and most of the memories will definitely be bad memories you are trying to forget.


Having sex with your ex won’t bring back your ex no matter how good the sex was. So why don’t you move on and share that experience with someone who really wants to be with you. 😉 


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