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31 May 2016

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Dirty talk… It’s time to give it a try…

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Today we’re having a different talk, a dirty talk… Are you using dirty words in sex or as a foreplay in your relationship? No? Maybe you should try it…

Since one of the most important things in a relationship is communication, it only makes sense that when things get hot and heavy, you should continue to have a dialogue. Yes, I’m suggesting dirty talk, and yes, if you haven’t given it a try during sex or foreplay, it’s time. It’s actually less scary than it seems.

Whether you choose to talk dirty in bed, via sexting, or like to indulge in good old-fashioned phone sex, talking dirty is definitely something everyone should try. Here are 5 hot reasons why:

1. Helps you learn what you are comfortable with. It can make some people feel vulnerable to put themselves out there in such a vocal way, and then there are those who just can’t say certain words, like “pussy,” or “cock,” which, to be honest, are the words you’re often going for when you’re talking dirty. There’s also the challenge of overcoming how you view words in the real world and how your view them in the bedroom.

2. It’s awesome foreplay. As any doctor or sex therapist will tell you, foreplay is an extremely important part of sex, especially for women. It takes women far longer to get aroused than men, and that’s why they don’t orgasm as quickly as men do. For us, foreplay is essential. If you can start with some dirty talk, then you’ll be tantalizing each other in ways that are just as important as physical foreplay. Quickies are fun, but if you have the time to take your time, then do it. Set aside a full 20 minutes of just talking dirty to each other before you even remove your clothes and touch each other. You’ll see the difference it makes.

3. You will totally surplised yourself. It’s always nice when you can still surprise yourself, isn’t it? And the thing is, when you push yourself to do something that you’ve never done, you just might realize it was made for you. Talking graphically about how you want to be touched and how you’re going to touch your partner might revolutionize your sex life — but you’ll ever find out unless you give it a try.

4. You will surprised your mate. There are plenty of ways to spice things up in your long-term relationshipwhen things are feeling a bit stale. If your sex life has become the stuff of missionary right before bed, then talking dirty to your partner is an easy way to switch things up a bit. Chances are the dirty things you’ve been thinking, but haven’t said out loud yet, will truly surprise them. You can whisper in your partner’s ear, making sure your lips just slightly graze their earlobe. From there, depending on their response, you can continue, or let them take over and tell you what they’re thinking, too.

5. It leads to better sex. If you’re talking honestly, openly, and graphically about what you want to get out of every sexual experience, how can it not lead to better sex? With communication and all this dirty talk, there are no secrets — and neither you nor your partner is forced to try to figure out what that moan or facial expression really means. Sex shouldn’t be a riddle.

26 May 2016

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Swinging: Would you ever try it?

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26-05-2016, Our American Articles

A new modern way of sexual freedom for couples called swinging is came up before some years and a lot of couples said why not… While the term “swinging” may be a throwback to the 70s and the days of Plato’s Retreat, more and more modern couples are hooking up with other couples, either informally or through networks or clubs. And, of course, like all things online, the Internet has amplified these opportunities and made it easier to find couples and clubs in a neighborhood near you. As with most sexual activities, there haven’t been many studies into the prevalence of swinging – and many people who do it don’t necessarily want to admit it – but some experts believe that there could be as many 15 million Americans swinging on a regular basis. Chances are you have a friend or neighbor who is swinging. Read more

25 May 2016

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I like flirting with others when i’m in a relationship…

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Are you in a relationship but you also like flirting with other persons? You like meeting new people eventhough you love your mate?

Ever heard the lyric, “I only have eyes for you?” Well, what happens when you get into a relationship, but still seem to notice other attractive people? Does settling down mean that you need to become blinded by love?

Over time, sheltering yourself from anyone you may find attractive can cause resentment in a relationship and make you think they are holding you back. If you have to hold yourself back from just talking to someone you find attractive in fear that you may cheat, maybe it is time to reevaluate your relationship: just talking shouldn’t be a problem if that’s furthest you take it. Friendly banter can help you feel comfortable going out without your boyfriend or girlfriend and make you happier when you do see them…

Nearly 50 percent of those polled by the Health and Wellness Association reported feeling young and sexy when they are flirting, and another 36.8 percent said flirting gives them a natural high.

Flirting can actually make you feel sexier in your relationship. Knowing that others find you attractive can boost your confidence and make you feel more attractive.

By no means am I promoting trying to pick up everyone you see if you are in a relationship. As great as flirting can be for your confidence, remember the golden rule of “treat others how you want to be treated.” Don’t throw yourself over someone else right in front of your boyfriend or girlfriend, as this can cause one of relationships biggest problems, jealousy. Make sure you don’t cross lines from flirting into cheating.

But, it is quite possible (and absolutely normal) you will feel a minor connection with someone else down the road. When I say, “flirting” with others, I don’t mean picking up a bunch of people and getting their phone numbers. There is quite a fine line between “flirting” and “cheating.” Even flirting has its obvious boundaries; one shouldn’t be exchanging phone numbers and going out with someone else.

Once you approach and talk to that “someone else,” you will notice that once the conversation is over, your attraction will slightly fade. We’ve all heard the saying, “You want what you can’t have.” The major reason we like others while we’re in relationships is because we subconsciously believe we can’t talk, flirt orhang out with someone we’re attracted to. Therefore, the thought of cheating keeps growing and we start looking for exits in order to break free. The solution to silencing those thoughts is to flirt, flirt, flirt. Once you do, you will realize the idea of being “trapped” was just all in your head.

Being separate individuals means we are all free. You and your partner cannot act as one unit in all parts of life. You are free to flirt with, talk to and like other people. Not crossing the line of flirting into cheating has to do with respect and your freedom won’t extend that far if you respect your partner enough. By being one unit 24/7, your partner cannot and will not be able to continue giving you the attention and confidence boosts you need. But, others certainly can! When you flirt with other people, you’ll get an enormous boost of self-confidence from knowing you’re still desirable and not “trapped” with your partner.

Most Importantly…

The most important rule about flirting while in a relationship is to flirt with yourboyfriend or girlfriend. Relationships can get boring and too comfortable if you do not try and keep them exciting. Hit on your significant other while you are out and act like they are someone you are trying to pick up, for example; it can keep things fun and will help you maintain a healthy relationship.

24 May 2016

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Sex toys help your relationship & your health…

Sticky Post By Harriet Brookes On May 24, 2016 With No Comments

Have you ever use sex toys? How often do you use them? Are helpful for your sexual life?

The question of the day is are these toys just for fun or are there other benefits as well? One of the biggiest is who if anyone would receive them? Believe it or not your relationship status comes into play.

For single people in addition to the good feelings there are a few interesting health benefits:

Stress relief since endorphins are released in the brain during orgasm.
It burns calories! While it is known that a sex session burns a good amount of calories the same is true when using a vibrator. Maybe not as many as an hour or so with a partner but it increases your heart rate. This has the same benefit as an hour long cardio workout and it sure as hell is more enjoyable than going to the gym?
Remember those endorphins which reduce stress? They can also help you to cope with pain be it physical or emotional.

So if you’re a single lady knock yourself using a sex toy,it’s a great way to get your orgasm and improve your health at the same time.

What if you are in a relationship though? Can they help there as well? The answer is a resounding yes.

One of the main benefits is that it adds a new dimension to what can become a routine. Even though we might not like to admit it the longer you’re in a relationship the more of a “chore” sex can become. Some people still find it hard to talk about what it is they really want when it comes to sex since this will avoid hurting the feelings of their partner but it surprising how people can lose their inhibitions when sex toys are used. They will make things become more adventurous in the bedroom. I myself enjoy using my toys while my partner watches or they use them on me as well. In addition to being a bit different it adds the “feeling” of a third person which some couples may want to explore later.

As you can see, the benefits of using sex toys far outweigh any disadvantages whether you are single or in a relationship. If you’re a single lady keep up what you’re doing. If you are in a relationship and currently don’t use toys talk to your partner and bring them in slowly.

Just remember that the biggest reason to use a sex toy is quite simply because they are fun so why not?

16 May 2016

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5 top sex tips to please your girlfriend…

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Do you know which are best 5 foreplay sex tips to please your lovely girlfriend? Here they are:

1.Try this great warmup

The precoital massage: As a warmup to the main event, start by massaging the length of her legs, from her upper thighs down to her ankles. Then focus on the feet, kneading her heels and all other points beneath. Then zero in on the toes and stretch them individually. Of course, if her impeccable hygiene encourages you to suck her toes, you’ll have her in ecstasy.

2. Ask what turns her on

Come right out and ask what she likes during sex. “Most women appreciate men who want to make sure they’re satisfied,” says Barbara Bartlik, M.D., a professor of psychiatry at Cornell University. “If she notices you’re working hard to please her, she’ll be more likely to return the favor.” And tell us: Is there a better place to develop your work ethic?

3. Best position for hitting the G-spot

Most experts say that G-spot stimulation works best when you do it by hand, since it allows for more subtle manipulation. But that means less fun for you. To get at her G-spot during intercourse, enter her doggy-style from the rear.

4.Kissing keeps her going

You’re close, really close, but you’re forgetting what got you here in the first place. Just remember that passionate kissing doesn’t always mean frantically swabbing out her tonsils. Try to mix up your tongue play with the occasional closed-mouth kiss on her nose, eyes, and forehead.

5.Reward her bravery

When she initiates the action, make an extra effort to please her sexually and to let her know how much you approve. Tell her you loved her initiation. Sometimes women wonder if you’re going to perceive initiation as negative or if it might make you uncomfortable.

12 May 2016

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Are you feeling bored with your partner?

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12-05-2016, Our American Articles

WHAT TO DO IF YOU FEELING BORED IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. Are you start feeling bored in your relationship? Don’t be afraid… many people feel just like you… Believe it or not, feeling bored in relationship is much more common than you think. Few months into relationship, or perhaps a year or two in some cases, and novelty and hormonal high wear off. You just don’t feel the same way anymore. It’s normal. What you should realize that it’s normal. Most likely your partner didn’t change. It’s same beautiful person you fell madly in love with. What happened is that novelty effect isn’t there anymore, because it simply can’t last, be that with your current partner or somebody else. So what do you do? Do you just go and change partners every six months? Of course not!

4 funny games to play with your boyfriend…

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When you are in a relationship you must do some different, interesting things together to keep the fire alive… you should take a risk, try new experiences and do funny things together…

If you feel like your relationship has been kind of dull as of late, have no fear, relationship games are here. Here are 4 simple games you can play to get the fire going between you two again. These games are for new and established relationships.

1.Blind Date. You can both write down five places without telling each other the locations. You might be writing the same places down, but you don’t know. Then draw one out of a hat and that will be where you go for your ‘blind’ date. Make a reservation and dress up like it really is a blind date. When you dress up it helps bring that extra element of fun to your night. Then when you’re at your blind date, try to find out more about each other that you may not have shared before. Share funny childhood stories, funny phobias, and your most embarrassing moments, keep it light and fun. If he gets lucky, maybe you’ll give him a good night kiss.

2. Double date charades. Find a couple and invite them to play charades. Serve some appetizers and switch up the teams. Don’t just play on your partner’s team because you guys know each other too well. This game is sure to bring some laughs and it’s important to socialize in relationships so you don’t just hang out with each other.

3. Sentimental game. This game is called 10 things I love about you. It’s a good game to do with a glass of wine, with dinner or dessert. It’s a simple game but there is a rating system. You go back and forth taking turns telling each other what you love about the other person. You will each rate the other person’s things on a scale of 1-10. The person with the highest score at the end of the game wins. You can judge the reason based on uniqueness, genuineness, and sexiness. For instance, I love your eyes is about a 1 on the uniqueness scale and I love the way you breathe deeply and play reggae when you’re mad at me instead of saying something unkind is more like a 7 on the uniqueness scale. This game encourages you to really think about the other person and will bring you closer together.

4. Movie game. This game might just be a good excuse to watch movies and kiss, but who cares. The rules are simple. It’s kind of like that family guy drinking game but less unproductive. Every time the word ‘love’ is said, you kiss your partner. This means you’re better off choosing a romantic movie or television show, otherwise you can’t kiss. You’ll get to know the movies that you get to kiss the most in. You can switch the rules and kiss every time there is a kiss on screen too. This is a dumb game, yes, but it’s light hearted and fun. These games don’t have to be rocket science. The point is to get you relaxed, comfortable and just having fun.

28 Apr 2016

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Love at first taste: Your tastebuds give you the perfect partner…

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If you are looking for the perfect partner you must read this research about listening to your tastebuds and how help you to find the ideal love…

The study, which polled 12,000 people from around the world, revealed that flavour preferences not only decide whether we enjoy a spicy broth or a sweet soup, but are just as important when it comes to choosing a partner. Pairing complete strangers based on their love of the same flavours, the experiment revealed that spice and spice, salt and salt and sweet and sweet are indeed a match made in heaven.

A huge 80% of people said they are naturally more attracted to people who share similar tastes, with 33% saying they found it a turn-off when a date ordered a dish they disliked.

Food and flavours are a window to our character, and our flavour preferences offer a vital insight into our personality. So, it is no wonder that when pairing up, we seek soul-mates who are also eat-mates, who like the same food and flavours that we do.

When it comes to tasting the flavour, 48% of people would rather give up sex in exchange for being able to taste food, 70% would give up the right to vote and a huge 75% would give up social media.

If we think about it, flavour is what makes food such a pleasure and a part of many of life’s meaningful moments…. so eat and experience your taste to find your perfect love one!!! 😀

15 Apr 2016

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Tired of trying to be perfect. Perfectionism & relationship…

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15-04-2016, Our American Articles

1. THE PROBLEMS OF BEING PERFECTIONIST. What harm can perfectionism cause?Being perfectionist may cause many problems. It can:cause you to have low self esteemstop you being happy
hurt your relationships. One by one let’s take a look at the points above and you’ll see why it is so important to stop being a perfectionist. Perfectionism will prevent you from taking satisfaction from anything you achieve. A perfectionist believes that nothing he or she does is good enough because only perfection is acceptable. The trouble is perfection doesn’t exist. A perfectionist has low self esteem because he can’t accept himself as he really is imperfect. Read more

15 Apr 2016

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True love story: She flies 5,000 miles for first date with a men who met online & he foots the bill…

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How says that online dating give you fake love and can not realize your dreams? Τhe following story proves the opposite. A woman has revealed she flew 5,000 miles across the world for a first date with a man she’d met online just 14 days earlier – and now travels the world with him, and he foots the bill.

Lauren Levy, 35, from Louisiana, met Hani Alkoot, oil-worker 40, who lives in Kuwait, on a website that connects attractive singletons who want to travel with successful men who are generous enough to cover the cost.

The pair decided to meet each other for a first time in Amsterdam to see whether their connection was as strong in real life. The sparks flew, and the couple have been travelling the world together ever since meeting last year, visiting three countries in 10 months.

Mr Alkoot pays for all Miss Levy’s travel expenses and has so far spent up to $12,000 (£8,400) on each trip – including five-star hotels, tickets to shows and Michelin-starred restaurants.

Αctually, Mr Alkoot pays for all Miss Levy’s travel expenses and has so far spent up to $12,000 on each trip – including five-star hotels, tickets to shows and Michelin-starred restaurants.

Miss Lauren said that she she was looking for a well-travelled and experienced man…. she met Mr Alkoot and they messaged every day for two weeks. After two weeks, he suggested flying her to Amsterdam, so she could join his 40th birthday celebration and that’s how it starts…

‘We stayed in the bed of his apartment for a week and he stayed on the sofa – he was a real gentleman. Lauren says.’It was the craziest thing I’ve ever done. I never thought I would fly half way around the world for a stranger.’ Miss Levy told of how she felt nervous because they had a week to spend together. But after a few hours in each other’s company, the pair relaxed as if they had known each other for months. ‘We hit it off straight away and there was a real chemistry for friendship there, but I wasn’t sure romantically,’ said Miss Levy. ‘After a few days, he started to take my hand as we toured the city, and when I left we had a passionate kiss goodbye. ‘I knew this was something I wanted to pursue.’

Once Miss Levy got back to the US, she kept in constant contact with Mr Alkoot, concocting ambitious plans for their next destination.

They call it travelship because they live far away and they can’t wait for their next travel together… 😛

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