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26 May 2016

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Speed dating study shows that women are more picky…

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Are women more choosy on date than men? What do you thing? Women are twice as choosy as men when they go speed dating, research suggests. Why might that be?

However, a recent study into speed dating habits concluded that if men and women go to an evening and have 22 separate dates, men are keen to see about five women again, while women would only choose to see two again, on average. That means that for every offer a woman makes, she has roughly a 50-50 chance that the man will want to see her again too. But for every offer a man makes, he only has a one in five chance that the desire to meet again is reciprocated.

The research was done by economists Michele Belot from the University of Edinburgh and her colleague Marco Francesconi from the University of Essex, who collected data from 84 speed dating events involving 3,600 people in the UK.

But why are men less fussy?

“This is something that evolutionary psychologists and biologists do recognise,” says Belot. “We know that across a whole range of behaviours women tend to take fewer risks.

“They relate this to the fact that making mistakes are much more costly for women than for men because of childbearing. So obviously if you make a mistake in dating the wrong man and having a relationship with the wrong man, you might have nine months carrying a child, then caring for a child. While for men, the costs are lower.”

“For both men and women, education and professional status matters. We found that women prefer taller men and men prefer slimmer women,” says Belot.

People marry people very similar to themselves – from the same socio-economic background for example. And economists argue that this stops social mobility between generations.

For instance, people from rich privileged backgrounds marry each other, while people from more disadvantaged backgrounds marry each other.

But speed dating shows that people are not too fixed in their views of who they should date, says Belot, if they are given the opportunity.

Finally which is your opinion? What do you thing about speed dating? Are women more picky with men?

18 May 2016

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3 things men find irresistible in a woman

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Which is the type of women you can’t resist… the women that you can’t take your eyes off her…

Additionally, a man may not have the ability to pinpoint exactly what it is about a woman that he finds sexy – he just knows what’s sexy when he sees it. Worst of all, one man’s opinion usually does not represent the opinion of the majority of men – one man may be fixated on breasts, another might be a leg man, and another might have a foot fetish, and so on.

Here are some simple yet often overlooked things that the majority of men find irresistible in a woman. They are as follows:

Smile. Believe it or not, one of the top things that a man finds sexy in a woman is something that’s well within your reach. And that is, your smile. A university study was conducted a few years ago, wherein the main objective was to find out exactly what men meant when they described women as “cute” or “attractive”.

Approachability . When it comes to attracting men, you must appear approachable, but not easy. This is a fine balance that you must learn to achieve, particularly if you want to attract the right kind of man. If you appear too approachable, you’ll attract opportunistic men who have all the wrong motives — and you’ll turn off the more desirable men who prefer a more discriminating woman. A man wants to know that he can comfortably initiate a conversation with you without becoming unduly intimidated and without getting sweaty palms — and know that you’ll be receptive to him.

Approachability, as a factor of sex appeal, includes not just your attitude and aura, but also your look. Women who appear as though they went to great lengths to look flawless. This is why supermodels, movie stars and some of the world’s most gorgeous women often find themselves without dates or male suitors. They look intimidating, not inviting. He wants lips he can kiss spontaneously without running the risk of the woman saying, “Don’t kiss me — I just put on my lipstick” – or kissing her and smearing messy lip product all over her face and his. They prefer women who won’t have a heart attack if someone accidentally spilled a little wine on their blouse or if they had to sit in the front row at the movies because the theater is too crowded.

There is a quality that always magnetizes a man to a woman — even if she isn’t the most beautiful, the one with the sexiest body, the smartest – and even if she isn’t his type. The ability to be at ease, to act comfortable with yourself in the presence of the opposite sex, is irresistible. Now this is easy with men you’re not interested in but harder with someone you find attractive.

Laugher. Men always want to know that they can make a woman happy. Therefore, a woman who laughs easily (but not excessively) is often irresistible to a man When a woman indicates that a man makes her happy, the man begins to feel confident, becomes more interested, and wants to please her even more. If he senses that he can’t make her happy, he moves on.

11 May 2016

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Spicy survey: 4 men’s favorite sex positions

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11-05-2016, Our English Articles

Harriet Brookes- SPICY SURVEY

Sex and especially the way we do sex is the “mirror of our relationship”… The truth is that sex is an important aspect of every relationship – sometimes even more important than we would dare to admit. A recent survey found that men aren’t as prudish and traditional as you might think. The poll of 800 adults across the UK found that men’s favourite sex position is Doggy Style. The on-all-fours move was voted as the sexiest position in this survey. However, which other positions send men crazy? Read here all the best to help you get some serious brownie points in the bedroom: Read more

11 Apr 2016

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5 tips for women who date older men…

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Dating has no age limits… everyone has the right to meet new people, go out and fall in love. If you are a woman and you meet an older man that you want to date of course and you should consider some things but don’t let age be a barrier.

The truth is that if you really like someone who is considerably older, the relationship is usually based on compatible personalities, common interests, and chemistry. An age difference between two people who really like each other is something that quickly becomes a non-issue.

Some people may be much younger than their actual age mentally, emotionally and socially, while others may have had life experiences that make them seem older than their birth age…

Women who date older men often do so for a variety of reasons. For example, they may desire financial stability, be attracted to a confident male who has clear goals, or find an older man able to be more sensual in the bedroom. Keep these tips in mind to help your relationship start out.

1.Don’t become needy and dependent.While men do appreciate a woman who needs them, they also appreciate a woman who is independent – someone who is able to make decisions, earn money, and take care of herself. When you don’t feel independent, you place a burden on the relationship. Even if a man earns much more than you and can easily take care of all your expenses, he will feel stifled if he has to take care of all the bills and expenses, as well as make all the decisions on where to go out for dinner, where to shop, and other simple things. So stay self-assured, confident, and fairly independent.

2.Older men are too experienced to play social games. You don’t want to try to act or dress in a non-natural way just to attract them. Just be yourself and don’t worry that you may not be mature enough or experienced enough for them. They obviously find some quality about you that is attractive so there is no need to try to be or act like someone that you are not. Be comfortable with who you are and the right relationship will fall into place.

3.Ask his opinion. Since an older man may have a broader perspective on life simply because he is more experienced, you can ask him questions that a younger man might find threatening. For instance, you can ask him about career growth or money management because he is likely to be very supportive, offering you advice from his experience, referring you to professional colleagues, or simply pointing out where you can find your best answers.

4.Act like your age.Do not imagine that when you’re dating older men, you should act more their age than yours. Maybe that is the reason why he likes you, because you still harbor some of that innocence he craves for and you make him feel like a younger man.

5.Don’t think the very distance present. Try to live in the present and enjoy your relationship. Don’t think about what is going to happen in the distant future – whether you will get married, have stepchildren or not. You will make those decisions in due time. In the meantime, enjoy what your experience dating older men and start thinking about the future only when the two of you really know each other. 😛

Do any of you have experience with dating older men? Do you think it’s harder to have a relationship with an older man?

04 Apr 2016

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How To Meet a Girl Online and Ask Her To Go Out…

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04-04-2015, Our American Articles

How To Meet a Girl Online

If you are looking for a women online but you don’t know exactly how to approach and ask her to go out read this below: Learning how to successfully find a girl online takes a bit of strategic planning. Women who put personal profiles on dating sites tend to get a lot of perverted and otherwise nasty responses, so most are leery of replying to responses. They basically have their guard up, and rightfully so, some men have tricked women and degraded them. While many women are still interested in meeting men online they are not sure if they can always trust personal descriptions. Obviously by chatting via emails and personal messages there is an opportunity to get to know someone, but if that person is being honest or not is always an issue. Read more

24 Mar 2016

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My boyfriend wants a secret relationship…

Sticky Post By Harriet Brookes On March 24, 2016 With No Comments

You are dating a gorgeous guy and everything seems to be perfect except from the fact that he is asking you to keep your relationship secret? There are a number of reasons why he might be doing his best to keep your relationship a secret:

The first possibility is that you’re not the only girl he’s going out with. Society has a ton of names for this situation, but if he is going so far as to ask you to hide your feelings and status from your friends, it’s likely because he doesn’t want them to know. There could very well be another girl in the picture, and he doesn’t want the news getting back to her. 😎

Another reason could be that he just sees you as temporary, and doesn’t want to spoil his chances with someone else. He may be into one of your friends, and by keeping them in the dark about being with you, he can still pursue them (or anyone else) when you’re not around. This is the same idea as having a “safety net” relationship, where you know if nothing better comes along, there is a person you kept hanging to go back to.

Also, he could just be emotionally or physically using you… many people just want someone so they can feel wanted, even if they don’t feel any emotions whatsoever. This is about as unhealthy as it gets, but it’s still a possibility. 🙁

One more reason for having a relationship with someone secretly is because you worry what other people will think. This is a reason that mainly affect women but sometimes also a man can have a secret relationship because he want to keep away his close family and friends from this relationhip. Maybe your parents or friends would not approve of this person. You should really stop and consider why they wouldn’t approve before having a secret relationship. Your family and friends really just want what’s best for you in most cases. Now and then there are situations where they just want to impose their will on you. But for the most part, they’re looking out for you.
Do they feel the person will hurt you, or doesn’t treat you right? Has that person given them reason to think the relationship might not be a good one? If they disapprove on those grounds, you can hardly blame them. In fact, keeping the relationship a secret hints that you might not disagree completely.

Finally, in a healthy relationship, there is no reason to hide. When you keep something secret, it usually means you are afraid of someone finding out, or are embarrassed or ashamed about it, or both. This can make YOU feel like you are unworthy of being his public girlfriend. Ask yourself why he would want to keep this a secret. If your best friend were in a relationship like this, what would you advise her to do? 😉

15 Mar 2016

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Why you should leave him to pay on the first date…

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When the check comes, especially on a first date there is a question that comes inside you: “Who is going to pay?”

It’s a tough question because it brings up all sorts of issues on equality, feminism, and independence. The tradition of men paying for a first date seems to have stemmed from a time when few women worked or were able to support themselves, and a man’s offer to buy dinner was not just a sweet gesture of romantic interest, but a necessity and a signal of the financial stability required to support a family.

However, when asked who should pick up the check on a first date, 59% of total respondents said that the man should always pay–unless the woman has asked him out. So, ladies, it’s not bad if you are on the first date and leave him to pay. It’s more romantic and classic. Real gentlemen always pay on the first date…unless you prefer not to date a gentleman. He should be the one to make the first move when the bill comes.

In the olden days, men routinely paid because women, generally speaking, didn’t have the means to do so. But if he offers to pay nowadays, it’s not because he thinks she can’t handle it; and he’s not trying to offend. He’s most likely just doing what feels instinctively appropriate in the moment.

In fact, during your first few dates with him, he should pay and here’s why you should let him:

1.It’s his chance to prove to you that he’s responsible, established and steady. Remember, first impressions matter. If he doesn’t show you he is a gentleman on the first date, you can be assured he won’t show you on the second or the third date.

2.It will show you whether or not this man has the ability or the desire to provide for you. A first date is a first date—don’t start planning your wedding just because he’s taking you out to dinner. However, I believe that with all relationships, the first impression is usually the most important. If he’s not willing to pay for your dinner, or worse yet, acts like he forgot his wallet, what does that say about his potential to help provide for your family if the relationship were to go any further?

3.Let him pay for the first date and then offer to treat him the very next time you go out. Or, if you’re planning to stay out after dinner, offer to grab a round of drinks or dessert at the next stop. This way you both get to practice your generosity, and it feels a bit more romantic than going halfsies all the time.

4.If he asks you out and it is clear he is interested in dating you then he should pay on the first date. I think we’re all mature enough to realize he won’t always pay for everything but it’s important that he shows you that he can treat you to something nice occasionally and especially as a first impression.

5.No matter how much time has passed and how the sexes have evolved, most men just want to be ‘men’ at certain times which means that it’s actually easier to let them have their moment of feeling pleased with themselves for taking you out on the date and paying, than it is to bruise their ego’s. 😎

08 Mar 2016

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How to approach a girl for a first time…

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If you trying to find ways to approach a woman to a bar or somewhere else for a first time but you don’t know how here we are to help you! Actually men find it very challenging to talk to a girl for the first time. In a crowd of many people, there’s always one person who will catch your eye. When that moment comes, you must know what to do to introduce yourself… Use this chance to mingle with others and meet girls:

Start with a compliment.

Classic way to start but always successful if you know the right way to do the compliment. Paying a girl the right compliment makes your intentions clear right away – she’ll know instantly that you’re interested in being more than her friend.

Offer a drink and act naturally

Girls like special treatment. Offering a drink is a gesture that would demonstrate your appreciation of their presence. Normally, they will refuse because you are a stranger. To make this strategy work, introduce yourself first before offering a drink. If they still decline, respect their decision. Start a conversation instead.

Make eye contact

During a conversation, it is important to make eye contact. The best way to talk to a girl is by looking into her eyes. This makes her feel that you are sincere with your intentions and you are an honest person. Aside from that, avoid getting distracted by other women in the crowd. Focus your attention to the person you are talking to.

Smile and infuse humor

Every girl wants a good laugh. A good sense of humor always makes the conversation more interesting and fun. Add this to your discussion to make a lively chat. You’ll never go wrong with this style as long as you don’t offend anyone with your joke.

Ask her opinion

One of the most effective ways to start a conversation is to ask her opinion on something. This works especially well with groups of women, and with a topic they would love to talk about. Fashion, relationships, celebrity gossip: the topics are endless. 😉 😉

16 Feb 2016

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Best personality traits women want from men

Sticky Post By Harriet Brookes On February 16, 2016 With 1 Comment

Ladies are impressed from men’s physically qualifications but they also focused in some important personality traits of them. When it comes to mens personality there are a number of things that are worth looking into…

It’s important to know what personality traits women want in men to be successful in attracting a great partner. A lot of women look for things like being rich, good-looking, ripped, or being great in bed. But there also those women who looking for guys with strong personality…

They impressed from a man when has an interesting character and special features…

Which are the personality traits that men should have according to the desires of women?

Being faithfull. You should never cheat on the woman that you have. Being faithful can only work in your favor. Let’s put it this way, you want to sleep with a number of women.

A gendleman is always atracctive. Women want a guy that treat a lady like a lady and if you actually ask women about it you will quickly learn that they have an appreciation for men that carry old fashioned beliefs.

Strong man is desirable. This does not refer to being physically strong but more to your character in comparison to hers. If you can show true strength and firmness of character you will create an image of a strong man in her eyes. This is about being confident and not being afraid to show it.

Be compassionate. Compassion it’s about going there to offer her some real comfort.

Being direct.If you really want to impress her, try giving direct responses whilst looking into her eyes. Give her your full undivided attention and she will respect you for that.

Have humor. Women are emotional beings so they associate laughter with a good feeling. As a result, if you can make them laugh, you’re basically making them feel good around you.

Βe communicative. Communication is the cornerstone of any successful relationship, so a man must be able to listen to and empathize with his partner.

Being smart & successfull.Every woman wants a winner. If a guy has a job and a place to live, it generally means that he is driven, hardworking, and responsible – all of which are ideal characteristics in a mate.

Be sociable. A woman wants to know that she can introduce you to her pals without having to worry that you could potentially creep them out. Being able to play well with others is key. 💡 💡

12 Feb 2016

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Signs that he wants you only for sex…

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Physical relationship is very important but what happen when he wants only sex and no emotional attachments?

If you’re worried you’re falling for a guy who may only be interested in getting in between the sheets, you may want to look out for these signs below and figure out whether you’re in the sex zone…

After a few dates, it becomes clear that this charmer has no interest in an intimate and meaningful relationship with you. His real agenda is only to have sex with you.

So, here are some spots that show you if a guy wants more than sex from you:

Weekdays lovers

If your guy has a virtual do not disturb sign up sign up on the weekends, this is a clear sign that he is reserving weekends for someone else on his literal to-do list, or keeping his options open to meet other women. “When a girl is just a girl I’m into for sex, I’ll never ask her out on a weekend. Weekends are strictly reserved for A-listers and new opportunities.”

Invitation to nowhere

You never get invited to anything – his friend’s birthday party, his work happy hour, not even a lackluster dinner and a movie. Bottom line: “Dates” are always cozy nights in. Why? Because that is the easiest place to, you guessed it… have sex.

Late-night lovers

A sure in-it-for-the-sex-only sign is when your man only reaches out to you after hours, when the day is done and quite possibly last call has been shouted. Although he coos for you sweetly on the other end of the phone, perhaps begging for your hot body, just know that you might be on a long list of lovelies, any of one of whom can satisfy his sexual cravings for the evening.

He tries to do more than a kiss on the first date. No matter how great the sparks are between you both, generally speaking, guys that really do like you can keep their penis in their pants and their hands above.

He doesn’t want to try to get to know your personality. A guy doesn’t need to know which is your favorite movie in order to get to know you. You’ll also find that a lot of the conversation is surface and that it tends to serve the greater purpose of making you feel comfortable enough… to have sex.

No talking to each other properly unless it leads to sex. Try having a conversation with him that reeks of two people in a ‘normal’ relationship and note his patent discomfort. 💡 💡