Dating a boy and not a real man…

There are many differences between a real man and a guy who is behaving just like a boy. You must know all the differences and make your choices before dating. You prefer a man or a boy? Read carefully  the following features of a guy – boy and keep in mind all these symptoms  in case he’s incapable of growing up…

1.He only cares about himself 😎 

He has no interest in your hopes and dreams unless they revolve around him; he only cares that his needs are being met. An actual adult would have already figured out he’s not the center of the goddamn universe.

2.He lives with his parents 😯 

This is the reddest of red flags. How can you expect to have an adult relationship with someone who’s never left the nest?

3.He expects from you to be his mom 😆 

If he thinks being in a relationship means he never has to cook, do his laundry or clean up after himself (or needs you to at least remind him to do those things), you’re in pretty warped territory. Let him know you’re more than a maid he gets to bang.

4.He never take the blame  😡 

Nothing’s ever his fault, is it? A man doesn’t worry about who’s at fault — it doesn’t matter. There’s nothing productive about assigning or arguing about blame. If something’s wrong, just fix it.

5.He doesn’t care of you 😡 

And I don’t mean financially. You’re an independent, 21st-century woman — you don’t need a man to pay your bills. But if he’s not bringing you chicken soup when you’re sick or giving you rides when your car’s in the shop, this is not a guy you can depend on.

6.He can’t fix anything 😕 

Maybe it’s an old gender role, but men are expected to be reasonably handy. He needs to know how to change a tire, mount a towel rack or at the very least.

7.He manipulates you  🙁 

Knowing how to manipulate people into doing what you want is actually a pretty good skill to have. But using it in a relationship is pretty rotten.

8.He can’t take a decision 🙄 

When you ask a guy where he wants to go for dinner and he says something like, “I don’t care,” or “Wherever you want,” it’s usually true. But the difference between a man and a boy is that the man makes a suggestion anyway.

9. He use sex to solve his problems 😳 

Make-up sex is awesome, but it only really counts if the issue is resolved beforehand. Otherwise it’s just a distraction that temporarily tables the problem and allows it to get worse.

10. He is not reliable  😕 

This one’s just common sense. If you can’t count on him to be there when you need him, he’s no kind of man you want in your life.


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How to make a man jealous…

 Let’s talk about jealous today. They say that jealousy is like “salt in food”… a little jealousy helps, because it is a good mate retention strategy. It helps us keep our partners because we become more attuned to potential threats to our relationship.

Jealousy can be either healthy or unhealthy. Healthy jealousy is a means to guard your territory and comes from a sincere care and commitment to a relationship. On the other hand, unhealthy jealousy manifests itself through lies, threats, self-pity, and feelings of inadequacy, inferiority and insecurity. 

Some of us are more and some less prone to jealousy, but the truth is that no one is entirely immune: each of us has his or her weak point, some of us are simply lucky enough to have it well hidden and hard to reach.

Some girls like to get a guy’s attention by making him jealous – But does it really work?

 The outcome depends on two things:

1.What do you want to achieve as an end result?

2.What are your real reasons for doing it in the first place?

Let’s see some ways to make him jealous… but be carefull to not overdo… a little jealous never hurts…

1.”I am busy today”. It’s not good if he is used to you always being there for him. Why don’t you turn off your phone for a couple of hours and get some time for yourself, or go get a drink with your friends? Why don’t you reschedule the lunch because something more important popped up? Why don’t you wait for a one  hour to answer his text?  Maybe you didn’t hear your phone, maybe you forgot, maybe, you were doing something you weren’t supposed to do!

2. Invite your male friend. As much as he says that he understands that you’re having male friends, there’s no chance that he’s not going to be a little bit bothered by how close you are with all of them.

3. Organize a lady’s night. Give him very little info about where you’re going, who will be there, when you’re getting back, just go out with your girlfriends… don’t answer the phone. You’re on the dance floor and you’re having fun!

4. Change somehing to your appearance. One effective way to grab your guy’s attention is to look amazing. Change something up about your hair, style, or start exercising so that your body will look really fit. The most important thing is to look and feel confident, because confidence in a woman can be one of the most attractive things to a guy.

5.Now that Valentine’s is around the corner, “play a game” with your girlfriends to send each other red roses. Don’t include a card. When it arrives, look happy. Don’t prance around him asking if he sent it. Act like it’s just another day.

6.When you go out with your friends, it helps to have proof of the fun times you had without him. Snap some photos and post them on Facebook or just show them to him when you get home. He’ll be jealous that you were having  fun without him around.

7.Flirt with other men. If he’s not getting the attention, someone else is and that is bound to make him ferociously jealous. But with this tip, you need to be extra careful. You don’t want to take the flirting overboard and make it look like you’re a bit of a floozy. Just keep it simple and casual. Laugh with other men, ask other guys if they’ve been working out. Nothing overboard, yet all comments that flatter another man other than the one you’re trying to make jealous.

8.Talk about your ex boyfriend. He might not admit it, but the truth is that they are all bothered with our exes at some level. Some of them don’t like seeing us with them, some are ticked off when they hear about your exes, and some are even brave enough to demand from us to completely lose contact with them.

On the other hand, if you constantly provoke your boyfriend to be jealous, eventually, he might stop trusting you altogether!  But if all you want is a few sparks to warm up the relationship, or to grab a bit of his attention, and you just wonder how to make him jealous then you willfind this post quite helping…  😉  😉 





Dating an Italian man…

Dating is differ by cultures. Men and women from different parts of the world will have different notions of dating.

For instance, what is right in the eyes of an American man may be wrong in the eyes of an Italian man. So, if you are getting ready for a date with a hot blooded Sicilian, then here are some general tips on what Italian men are like. True that stereotyping is not practical, but it is often useful in understanding one culture from another and hence will help you understand your Italian man better.


 It is not a secret that Italian men are great lovers. They are romantic and will definitely sweep you off your feet. They are extremely expressive when it comes to emotions, and you should be prepared for a lot of touching and kissing. This can pose a problem for you, if you are not expressive in this way. However, if you are loved by an Italian man, throw your inhibitions out of the door and get ready for a great time in the bedroom. These Sicilians are committed to pleasing their women and are attuned to the needs and desires of women.

Mama’s Boys

 Italian men are extremely family oriented. This could be a good thing and a bad thing. They are definitely mama’s boys and most of them still live at home! Italian men love their mamas to bits! So, if you are interested in an Italian man, do not talk ill of his mom. Do impress the old lady, if it is within your capabilities, but these ladies will be hard to please with very high expectations for the women their sons choose. Keep in mind, that you will be the second love of his life, if a relationship develops. His mama will always be his first. Your relationship is doomed to fail, if you rock the boat on this subject.

Loud and Expressive

Italian people are loud and vocal in expressing their opinions. Family gatherings with an Italian family will surely give you a headache, if you are not prepared for it. They may appear to argue vociferously one minute and then laugh out loud in the next minute. It may be similar to an emotional roller coaster for you. Be ready for such differences, if you love your Italian man and wish to be a part of his life, because loud family gatherings will be a part of the rest of your life, if you decide to tie the knot with him.

Stylish Man

 Italian men are recognised as some of the most well dressed on the planet. Style is something completely effortless for them, something that comes automatically and naturally for them. They like shopping and they spend a lot of their money for their style. It’s something they have in their culture. It’s in their DNA. It’s the way that they like to show off, the way they like to be like a “Latin lover.” So be prepared to spend so money more to impressed them.

 Very protective

They believe that a woman needs to be protected. He believes that now that you are his, he has “dibs” on you and your time. He believes that now that you are his, he has “dibs” on you and your time. This is not his fault; it is how he was brought up. While it can be charming at first, independent women may find it too smothering later on. So, take the relationship to a more committed level, only if you can be his and only his!


The best ways to capture a woman’s heart

Today it’s 1th of February, the month of love and we have some special tips  if you are a man and want to capture a woman’s heart…

1.Give her safety by take her in your arms and show her how you can hold her

A woman longs for a place of safety and protection where she can rest, feel safe and just “be.” Your arms around her symbolize that place. I am not talking a wimpy half hug with a pat on the back. I am talking about a holding that has the strength of a fortress in it.

Did you know that this kind of hug actually releases serotonin in a woman’s brain — the “feel good” hormone? You can bring her the reassurance that everything is going to be alright in this simple way.

2.What women want isn’t that complicated.

It’s always a mystery what women want in a relationship…or is it?

Believe it or not, gentlemen, women are humans too. This means they crave the same things that you do, deep down, but probably won’t admit.

They want to be loved, respected, trusted, and adored. They want you to listen, at least make an attempt to understand, and help where you can. They’re not nearly as complicated as you think – so don’t make it worse than it is.

3.Get honest

Women like genuine guys who are not afraid to embrace their strengths and weaknesses. Be honest, humble, and unpretentious, and you will win her heart in no time.

4.Get passionate

There’s something very attractive about men who have a passion. Therefore, nurture a passion, because that will prove to her that you can be compassionate towards her too. By getting serious about something, you will win her heart.
5.Be Romantic
Make your girlfriend feel good by keeping the romance alive in the relationship. You can do this with romantic ideas and it doesn’t cost much. Certainly, every woman loves when men gives them flowers and gifts. There are various things you can do to win the heart of a girl and improve your relationship. Writing thoughtful notes with imaginative ideas is a good way to impress any girl you love. Her curious desire for new experiences and fun you can curb by adding intelligence to your approach. Ladies like to be around intelligent and confident guys. You can give her a call just to tell her you are thinking about her and can’t wait to see her again. Pay attention to your girlfriend and make her feel wanted, treasured and really special.

6.Open up to her. The best way to build a bond with the girl you like is by building a secret relationship that no one else knows about. By flirting with her only when it’s just the both of you and by talking to each other late at night, it would be a secret flirty affair only the two of you know about, and that would make the whole relationship so much more exciting and mysterious.

7.Win over her friends. If you do know most of her friends, try to be nice to them. This isn’t really necessary, but it can help you score brownie points if she ever does discuss about you with her friends.

So does the girl whose heart you’re trying to win have a best friend? If she does have a best friend, then that’s the girl you need to please. Be nice to her best friend and get friendly with her too.

8.Show her that you respect her.

If you want to learn how to win a girls heart merely because you want to sleep with her, she will know exactly what you are doing and avoid you like the plague. Because of this, you have to show her that you respect her, no matter what. Regardless of why you might want to date a girl, respecting her will increase your chances of winning her heart in the end

Things you should know about dating a divorced man

Most people think that dating with divorced people is not such a good idea… but dating may not only be limited to singles or the desperate out there. People recently separated or going through a divorce may also be on the dating scene. If you find yourself interested in dating a divorced man, here are some things that you need to consider.

Divorced man getting into the dating scene may have different reasons for doing so after a failed marriage. If you are about to date a divorced man, it pays to uncover what his motives are. Recently divorced men are not getting into the dating scene in order to start a new relationship. A lot of them are into it for fun. They may not always be keen on starting another relationship challenge after going through the trauma of a divorce. Women should try to determine whether the motives for dating are similar to their own.

Understanding why the man divorced is a must if you think that your relationship may go from casually dating to serious. It’s not bad asking him why his marriage failed. Ask what he learned from the relationship and what he wants in the future from a potential partner. But although you should make yourself available for him to talk to, don’t try to play the role of therapist.

Divorce is a major life change that may affect many areas of life. Show understanding when it comes to his lifestyle changes. This may mean showing flexibility when he needs to handle a new situation. For example, instead of expecting that he’ll take you out every Saturday night, understand that some weekends are only for his kids…


One more thing you need to understand is that his ex-wife will always be apart of his life story. He may still be in contact with his ex or he may have friends and family that are still in contact with her. Even if he has no contact with his ex, you may run into people when you are out together that bring up his ex or ask him questions about the divorce.

Also, a divorced man may be more cautious or even opposed to the idea of getting married again. This may be especially true if he went through an ugly divorce. If this is the case with the guy you are interested in, the important thing is to not push him.

If you want the relationship to be successful, the last thing you’ll want to do is to compare yourself to his ex-wife. Don’t ask about how she was in bed or how she treated him in the happier days. A divorced man doesn’t want to think about these things.

These are all clear signs of jealousy and you’ll want to work those out between you and your new partner. Keeping tabs on a woman he no longer desires to be with only makes things harder for you.

Finally, the best thing to do, is to give him time and space to clear his mind, and probably focus on being friends. If it’s meant to be special eventually, you’ll be the first one to know…


6 types of women that men avoid…

Now, it’s time for a list with the types of women which men usually avoid. The truth is that there are no perfect women and no perfect men. Girls, similarly to guys can be separated into various groups according to their personality and behavior. As there are things women hate about men, there are also quite a few things that men hate about women.

Although dating is not about putting people into categories, there are some personalities that just make a guy want to turn and run.Let’s see 6 of them:

The Desperate woman. This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog–right after the first date! It may seem nice at first but it can easily get out of control to where you can’t think straight without her by your side. There’s nothing that scares a man more than a woman who constantly sings marriage into his ear when he’s not ready to say goodbye to bachelorhood.

 The Bimbo. Is an attractive but empty-heded lady who is nothing more than a pretty body and a pretty face. With such type of women men cannot have an intellectual conversation, because they will misinterpret everything men say and they come up with their own conclusions. men want  be with that type of women for a short fun but  can’t have a serious relationship with gilrs like that…

The Feminist . This type of woman can never be pleased by a man and she believes that men are the cause of all the pains and suffering of society. Guys don’t want to waste any time with this type of woman because anything that they do will always be negative to her. Feminists believe that are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the right way”… and guys hate be with a women who are stronger than them or more independent…

The flirter – girl. She goes around flirting with one guy and another. She can’t be loyal to one man. She cheats on her man over and over again. Even if she tries, she couldn’t stay faithful to any man. Most men wish to have a long-term relationship so they stay away from such type of women.

 Super – strong girl. How can a man date a woman whose muscles are bigger than his? Super-strong woman creates a feeling of inferiority in her man. Men like being protective and prefer to follow the traditional roll of the strong partner in a relationship. They prefer women who are more sensitive, something like”kittens -women”…

Woman- child. This kind of woman refuse to grow up. She is looking for a man to pamper her and mostly for a father, not a partner… At first, men might like such childish ways, but then they start hating to pamper.

What about you? Do you avoid the above types of women? Do you have something to add? Share your thoughts, please!