Keeping alive the passion & love in long term marriage…

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1. IS IT DIFFICULT TO STAY THE FIRE ALIVE? Being married for many years it’s not so easy because passion and fire it’s difficult to stay alive… Even though when you commit to one another that’s usually the intention, after a few years or even months, the “fire” sometimes dwindles and may even go out completely. Here we look at just some of the secrets and relationship tips on how to keep the love and passion in a relationship alive long after the fire, for many, would have gone out: 2. SECRETS & TIPS TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE  1.Forget all the small stuff. Just ignore all the little irritating habits and foibles and concentrate on the important things in life. Focus on the things that make him great, things for which you first fell in love with him, so that the flavor of his socks and flatulence won’t seem so bad!
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How to make him want you back again…

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HE DOESN’T WANT ME…You still love him but he doesn’t give you attention anymore Your feelings are still strong but he doesn’t seems feel same as you… Like it or not, all people go through a breakup or two during their lives. However, if you are asking how to make a guy want you back, it means that for you it’s not over yet. In this case you have to make sure that this is what you really want. There are a lot of tips and tactics that you can use to make guys want you and you can be sure that some (if not all) will work on him as well. TIPS TO MAKE HIM WANT YOU BACK.. Keep your distance When it comes to how to make a guy want you back fast is to show them the huge mistake they made when they let you go. 


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9+1 keys for women to transform your love life…

If you are a woman and you are in love you worry about the feelings of your mate… Are you having a hard time in love?Do you find yourself getting frustrated by your man to no end? Or do you worry your man isn’t into you the way he once was? It starts off perfectly, just like they say it would in fairytales. It’s all bliss and romance for a good year or two, and then, things just start to change. Well, it’s never too late to change your romance stars and bring love and happiness back into your life.

You need something to transform your love life but you don’t know what to do? Maybe you should change a little bit they way you treat him…

1.Play with him. Playfulness is the one thing that holds a happy relationship together more than anything else. Just because you’re past your childhood doesn’t mean you should act all grown up all the time!

2. Men are easily influenced by other men around them in their life. If his friends and other guys in the room think you’re a dream catch, he’ll fall more in love and stay more in love with you, and avoid straying away from you.

3. Not all men understand the art of chivalry, romantic gestures and romance. Instead of giving up on him, show him the way by example, and he’ll learn to treat you with respect.

4. Listen to his point of view before arguing back or cutting across him. It’s the easiest way to prevent tempers from rising. And don’t be condescending either!

5. You can’t change someone who doesn’t want to be changed. Help your man understand you better and help him learn by example. But if doesn’t want to change for you, perhaps, he doesn’t respect you or care enough for you, and you need someone else who can love you for who you are.

6. Don’t constantly remind him of his past failures. Men are very sensitive when it comes to past mistakes. He’ll clam up like a shell if you use his past failures to get him to accept defeat or listen to you.

7. Don’t blame yourself. You’re never entirely at fault if the relationship starts to suffer. So don’t blame yourself completely if you’re experiencing a bad relationship. Accept responsibility, but don’t blame yourself unless it really is your fault.

8. Men can’t read minds. As convinced as you are that men should have the innate ability to read a woman’s mind, they really can’t. So speak your mind and he will listen to your thoughts.

9. A man needs his space, even if he doesn’t ask for it. As long as he’s by himself or with his guy friends, you really have nothing to worry about. In fact, it’ll help both of you love each other better.

10. You and your partner are a team. There are no winners or losers between partners. Either both of you will win or both of you will lose together. So any issue has to be worked out to better the relationship, not to win points. 😛 



Writing a love letter… Here are some romantic tips…

Today we are going to give you some tips in case you strive to be a romantic lover. Major tool in the romance department is the love letter. As long as love (and writing utensils) has existed, so has the love letter. It has been the go-to way for millions of people throughout history to confess or reiterate their feelings of love for another.

 Nowdays, many couples leave notes for one another in the bathroom or in their bedroom, where most of the intimacy takes place! This gives them something to hold on to and think, about it also lets them know that you are thinking of them. But what about writing a real love letter to your mate?

Firstly, a love letter is one of the few letters that should be written out on paper rather than typed. It shows that you care enough to take the time to write it out by hand and adds a personal touch to it. A love letter is an expression of one’s feeling to another in written form.

Put a picture of your significant other in front of you to help inspire you while writing and also you can put on some light romantic music, or read some romantic literature to get you in the mood and give you some ideas on what to write about.

Remember to write from your heart and be sincere about what you say. You  should open up a letter with “Dear” if you are early on in the relationship, but if you are at a deeper stage, “My Beloved”, or “To My One and Only” may be more appropriate.

Your letter can be naughty and uncensored or can be just suggestive. It should be a nice letter with clean words but make sure that it has the properties of an underlying naughty theme. Leaving a little bit to the imagination can also create a very “hot” mate. In your letter you can express to your lover what you want to do to them and how you plan on making their night special. You can also explore fantasy and get the reaction of your lover to help you know if they are open to something new and maybe a little more wild than what you usually do.

How about a fantasy story? People are very stimulated by what they read. A great way to get the mind in gear and prepare for a wild night is to get the imagination flowing. A great way to kick-start the imagination is to write a fantasy romantic story. You could use your names or change the names and situations to suit you. This is so great because most of our fantasies only happen in our dream, but you can write a story and then possibly live it out with your partner. When you suggest something in your letter your lover will know that you are interested and willing!

A love poem is another great way to get the attention of your lover and spice it up a little. Deliver this “love poem” with a single red rose and watch your lover’s eyes light up. Everybody loves a poem, especially if it is personalized and quite seductive.

Don’t close your letter with “Sincerely”, use, “With warmest regards” (if you are at an early stage of your relationship), “Love”, “Yours always”, “Your beloved” (if you are at a later stage of your relationship) or something else along those lines.

And last but no least don’t forget to put a small dab of cologne or perfume on your letter before you seal it up and sending it out… 😉  😉 


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Relationship Advice that will lead you to Love!

The dating game can be really difficult and nerve wracking at times. Here’s what you can do to get past your nerves and self-consciousness so you can eventually build a genuine and loving relationship.  

Focus on the present moment

To combat first-date nerves, you may focus your attention outward, rather than on your internal thoughts and feelings. Try to be fully present in the moment: in what your date is saying and doing and what’s going on around you. This will help take your mind off distracting doubts, worries, and insecurities.

Show genuine interest.

The best way to connect with someone new is to be curious. When you’re truly curious about someone else’s thoughts, feelings, experiences, stories, and opinions, it shows—and they’ll like you for it. You’ll come across as far more attractive and interesting than if you spend your time trying to promote yourself to your date.

Never hide

Showing interest in others can’t be faked. If you’re just pretending to listen or care, your date will pick up on it. No one likes to be manipulated or placated. Rather than helping you connect and make a good impression, your efforts will most likely backfire. If you aren’t genuinely interested in your date, there is little point in pursuing the relationship further.

The cell phone stays in your purse.  

You can’t truly pay attention to anyone or forge a genuine connection when you’re multitasking. Nonverbal communication—subtle gestures, expressions, and other visual cues—tell us a lot about what’s going on in the other person’s head and how they’re perceiving and responding to us. But they’re easy to miss unless you are tuned in.

Get out of your mind and into your heart

Relationships are built on the connections we make in accordance with what happens from one moment to the next. If our intention is to be in a relationship, we can’t be somewhere else in our thoughts. 😉 


5 unique ways to spend Valentine’s Day…

Valentine’s day will come in few days and you should start thinking how you will spend the day with your partner… Valentine’s Day is a great occasion to honour the love that has kept you together.

I know it’s not a good day for those how are single but  think about that it’s just a day and it will pass away. But for those who are in a relationship we have some romantic and beautiful things to recommended you.

1.Relive the journey that got you here. Talk about memorable dates, the laughs and the romance and all the other little stories and memories that make your relationship special. Going through old e-mails, letters and photos are a great way to do this.

2.Try ordering in from a favorite restaurant and eating the meal in bed. Spend the night relaxing over good food and cozy company instead of cramped with strangers. Staying in bed all day eating your favourite foods sounds like a good time any day of the year. On V-Day, it doesn’t just have to be able breakfast — treat your honey to their favourite meal in bed.

3.Dress Up Sexy. Experiment with your favourite types of clothing. Get a lace bra or wear witty briefs — your partner will definitely thank you AND haves sex …Yes obviously, but try something new. A new location, a new time or even in a few times a day…

4.Go on a spa day together. Choose to have a relaxing day together on a spa hotel by doing some anti – stress therapies and a beauty treatment care. You will definitely get refreshed…

5.Dinner in the Sky. If you choose to go out for a dinner then choose something very special. Dinner in the sky is  a real flying dinner table baptized the Dinner in the Sky ( which served as the venue for 22 Young European Restaurant Owners to don their white chef’s hat. Over the past years, Dinner in the Sky has criss-crossed the skies of 45 countries… if it’s in your town make a reservation for that day… it’s really amazing feeling and the most romantic way to celabrate your love…

But even if you spent the past three weeks dreaming of sailing on a yacht with your boyfriend or opening a Tiffany’s box, be appreciative if he gives you a teddy bear. We’re not talking being understanding if he forgets the day altogether, but V-Day can be a little stressful for everyone, so make sure to acknowledge the effort he makes—you’ll have more fun, and he’ll be thankful to have such an appreciative girlfriend!

And remember that love is not meant to be given and received just  on Valentine’s Day… 😉 


Signs if he likes you…

Are you “dying” to know if he likes you? You can’t explain exactly his feelings and you wanna know what he really feels about you. Some guys can be hard to read. Not as hard as women, but still a challenge but if you want to know if a guy likes you, you have to pay attention to what he says and what he does when you’re hanging out. So here are some important signs showing  you that a guy likes you:

1. He calls and texts you a lot – if a guy or man is quite interested in you, he will make any excuses to call you so he can talk to you even for a couple of minutes. He will also send you simple greeting messages on your mobile phone such as good morning, good night, etc

2. He knows every detail about you – when a guy has a special feelings on you, he will make his own research about you. He may ask information with your mutual friends about your favorite color, food, place, birthday, and many more. Through that information he can think better idea on how to win your heart or attention.

3.  He loves to surprise you – he may give you simple gifts to surprise you such as flowers, chocolates, etc.

4. He will ask you to go on a date with him – no matter how shy he is, if he really likes you he will definitely ask you for a date. He will do this so he can spend time to know you better.

5. He will confess his true feelings for you – when he gain enough confidence or guts, he will surely tell you that he likes you. But, he will only say those words if he can see that you also like him. It is because he might afraid of rejection. In short, he will wait for the perfect timing before he will tell you that he likes you so much.

6.Guys love embarrassing each other, so if you walk into the room and you see his best mate nudging him and laughing it translates into “he is in love with you”

7.He compliments you or gives you unexpected gifts just because… it can be a box of chocolate, flowers or anything…unexpected gifts are definitely signs that a guy likes you.

8.When he ‘can’t get his eyes out of you’, just notice, does he look at you whatever you do and when you look up he looks down or away?

9.Another sign that he is into you and he wants to go further with you is when he opens up to you about his family, this way the guy, kind of, exposes himself to you.

10.If a guy lets you know about his personal life…and you never asked…he let’s you know that he is single and he show you thst he want to go on a relationship…


Me, my ego and my love…

How many of you have broken up from a relationship because you could not sacrifise your big ego?

The ego it’s the part of us that feels the need to be special. It’s that part of us that seeks approval – and by very definition it is a part of us that feels lacking in some way. Being egotistical is generally considered negative, while having high levels of self-esteem is positive. Ego is not actually bad because it gives us an identity and self-worth. Our ego will keep us from being pushed around and manipulated.  However, ego will cause relationship conflicts if we allow it to control our perception and decision.

Couples often are not willing to compromise with their ego. Each one would like to have his or her own way. In case of an  argument, they would not like to accept the fact that they are at fault. Such kind of  an attitude leads to disharmony and eventually a breakup. Since ego is  a major cause of a relationship breaking down, it is better to understand how ego can affect a relationship.

#.Each partner feels superior to the other and is not willing to listen to the other person.

#.Making compromises may be difficult. In order to make a compromise, one has to forgot one’s ego. Some couples may have problems doing so.

People with big egos are often insecure and trying to cover up those insecurities by pretending to be important or better than everyone else. Those with big egos lack confidence and self-love. Conversely, those with high self-esteem have confidence in their own abilities, know their shortcomings and love themselves.

Let’s see what can we do to reduce our big ego and move on to a healthy relationship:

1.Give more of your time and talent to others. This  will help you  see the needs of other people. Practice generousity with selfless motives.

2.Give more love. As you love more, give more to a relationship and expect less, you will develop a more fulfilling relationship.

3.Be open to differences. During conversations, just listen. Accept and respect the different opinion and value each person’s uniqueness.

4.Stop comlaining. Complaining keeps us locked in negativity. Who wants to hang out with someone who complains all the time?

5. Accept the rejection and failure. To combat the fear of rejection, you need to love yourself and know that you deserve positivity in your life. You must accept that life isn’t without failures.

True love can only happen when a relationship is completely free of ego, so it is the perfect test of your relationship’s foundations. The paradox is that true love is quite easily created in the mind by the very thing that wants it to be sincere… your ego!


When is the right time to say “I love you”

Everyone is looking for love… How doesn’t want love? Even those who are tough and independent deeply inside crave love…

The most overused and misunderstood phrase worldwide is the phrase: “I love you”…  the sweetest and most romantic words ever. But if you meet someone and feel something special for,  this doesn’t mean that you  really love him/her? When is the appropriate time to say “i love you”?

We’re talking about time here. Most people think that time is the ultimate basis for saying those words. Too soon, too early, just right – those are the factors that people base it on.

The truth is that there is no specific time or place to say “I love you.” You can say it whenever you want, wherever you want, and to whomever you want.

The only thing that you really need to think about is whether you really feel it in your heart. Is it really love? Or are you just expressing something that you think is love?

If you have any doubts about that, here are some guidelines on when it’s time to say it:

When you trust your partner. Usually, love doesn’t come until  you trust a person. By that time, you’ll be able to say those three little words without any doubts or second guessing. We’ll never know what can happen after, but it feels a little safer to say it to someone that you trust completely.

After spending time together. Not after the first date. You hardly know a person at this point, so it’s typically too soon to say that you love a stranger. If it’s love at first sight, however, it’s up to you to decide whether you’re willing to take a risk that quickly.

When you have no doubts about. You’re not thinking about why you shouldn’t say it. You know that you don’t want to loose that person and you always feel wonderful when you are together.

 When you feel butterflies, tightness in your stomach. That loopy feeling you get in your chest is your body’s way of saying, “We’re happy. Just go with it. Is the easiest marker to watch out for when you want to say “I love you.”

Not before or during sex. It’s better to say the words when you’re during sex, so you can differentiate between lustful love and romantic love.

When you’re not worried about saying it or anxious to hear the other person’s response.This means that you are sure about your feelings and you know that is a true love…

There’s no textbook, formula for saying it…so instead of stressing about it you should just say it… Enjoy the moment and this important feeling that will change your life!






What do really women want from a man…

Women always complain about men… they always asking themselves things like:” why i can’t find the right one?”, “where are the real men?” “why all my dates are failed?”…etc.

Every woman is looking for the guy who will make her feel like a princess. This guy has manners, intelligence, a sense of humor, and a kind heart. He’s the one to hold her when she’s upset and make her laugh ’til she cries… 

According to the needs of the modern women 5 things  girls looking from a man…

1.Understanding: It’s important for women to have men who understand them. It’s also important for women to help men understand how to listen. Men often don’t have a clue they’re being bad listeners.

2.Protection.Women need to feel that they are with a man who is ready to protect them from everything. Specially they need a man to offer them “financial coverage” and protection… They don’t want to thing everything…but looking for a guy who will think and care about all…

3.Kind Gestures: Hugs, kisses, unexpected telephone calls to say “I love you.” Simple things but also “large things” like gifts, sweety surprises, flowers, a romantic dinner to a good restaurant…

4.Sense Of Humor

Being funny makes men more attractive to women. There’s no science to it… it’s just a fact. One hundred percent of women appreciate a man who is witty. If you can make a woman laugh, she’ll almost always think you’re awesome.

5. Confidence

Women like men who are confident. When you’re sure of yourself and your actions reflect it, women will be naturally drawn to you. Women are attracted to men who know they’re great.