I like flirting with others when i’m in a relationship…

Are you in a relationship but you also like flirting with other persons? You like meeting new people eventhough you love your mate?

Ever heard the lyric, “I only have eyes for you?” Well, what happens when you get into a relationship, but still seem to notice other attractive people? Does settling down mean that you need to become blinded by love?

Over time, sheltering yourself from anyone you may find attractive can cause resentment in a relationship and make you think they are holding you back. If you have to hold yourself back from just talking to someone you find attractive in fear that you may cheat, maybe it is time to reevaluate your relationship: just talking shouldn’t be a problem if that’s furthest you take it. Friendly banter can help you feel comfortable going out without your boyfriend or girlfriend and make you happier when you do see them…

Nearly 50 percent of those polled by the Health and Wellness Association reported feeling young and sexy when they are flirting, and another 36.8 percent said flirting gives them a natural high.

Flirting can actually make you feel sexier in your relationship. Knowing that others find you attractive can boost your confidence and make you feel more attractive.

By no means am I promoting trying to pick up everyone you see if you are in a relationship. As great as flirting can be for your confidence, remember the golden rule of “treat others how you want to be treated.” Don’t throw yourself over someone else right in front of your boyfriend or girlfriend, as this can cause one of relationships biggest problems, jealousy. Make sure you don’t cross lines from flirting into cheating.

But, it is quite possible (and absolutely normal) you will feel a minor connection with someone else down the road. When I say, “flirting” with others, I don’t mean picking up a bunch of people and getting their phone numbers. There is quite a fine line between “flirting” and “cheating.” Even flirting has its obvious boundaries; one shouldn’t be exchanging phone numbers and going out with someone else.

Once you approach and talk to that “someone else,” you will notice that once the conversation is over, your attraction will slightly fade. We’ve all heard the saying, “You want what you can’t have.” The major reason we like others while we’re in relationships is because we subconsciously believe we can’t talk, flirt orhang out with someone we’re attracted to. Therefore, the thought of cheating keeps growing and we start looking for exits in order to break free. The solution to silencing those thoughts is to flirt, flirt, flirt. Once you do, you will realize the idea of being “trapped” was just all in your head.

Being separate individuals means we are all free. You and your partner cannot act as one unit in all parts of life. You are free to flirt with, talk to and like other people. Not crossing the line of flirting into cheating has to do with respect and your freedom won’t extend that far if you respect your partner enough. By being one unit 24/7, your partner cannot and will not be able to continue giving you the attention and confidence boosts you need. But, others certainly can! When you flirt with other people, you’ll get an enormous boost of self-confidence from knowing you’re still desirable and not “trapped” with your partner.

Most Importantly…

The most important rule about flirting while in a relationship is to flirt with yourboyfriend or girlfriend. Relationships can get boring and too comfortable if you do not try and keep them exciting. Hit on your significant other while you are out and act like they are someone you are trying to pick up, for example; it can keep things fun and will help you maintain a healthy relationship.


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How to impress your new girlfriend…

If you are a new in a relatioship and you are planing to impress your new girlfriend you should think about some smart things to do… Women are very emotional and complicated creatures, so if you want to keep your girlfriend smiling and giving up the loving, then you will need to continuously impress her…

For those men that do not know what kind of things impress a woman here are some simple ways that you can impress your girlfriend:

Good manners really impress a woman: Now you may think that the modern woman does not want the door opened for her because she is independent and so on – but this is not the case today as it wasn’t yesterday. Women like good manners.

Make her laugh: Girls do adore men with a sense of humor. If you really like her then you too will definitely want to see her laughing. So try it often and keep trying try even if you are not that good in this.

Compliment her on her looks: It makes her feel feminine. A romantic relationship with a man is first of all a celebration of a girl’s femininity, which is pampered when you appreciate her beauty. But don’t fake it. Praise her looks only at those moments when she looks particularly attractive to you.

Give her due attention: If she is with you don’t you ever stare other girls not even in a naughty way.

Listen to her: You know, girls are the most sensitive and emotional creatures. Their mind works like a butterfly. They spend their whole day just to think things which are senseless in our sense. No matter you have any interest or not just listen to her carefully.

 Make her gifts:Women always  love to be showered with gifts. If you want to impress her, trying bringing her flowers or chocolates just because. If your budget is enough yo handle it plan a trip, make her as a gift a jewellery or a nice dress… you will fascinate her for sure!

Plan a romantic weekend:Whisking your girlfriend off her feet on a romantic weekend getaway is a sure fire way to impress her. She will not only feel extremely special, but you may get lucky!

Defend and protect her:Women no matter they are indepentet or not they feel perfect if  a man defended them. Make her feel as if you would do anything to make sure she is safe…

Be as confident as you can:Women love confident men. However, don’t take it too far — if too confident, women will find you arrogant and egotistic.

Be yourselfYou will probably end up too busy trying to keep your story and persona straight to impress one girl much less make a girlfriend. Honesty impresses girls a lot more often than pretending to be someone you are not.