Is having sex with your ex a good or bad idea? 

Are you thinking about your ex… and especially the sex with him/her… Stop!!! Before you go back havimg sex with your ex mate just consider some points and then decide wheather is good or bad to moveon this step…

“Should you have sex with your ex ?” If you are asking this question, chances are that you think that by having sex with your ex you will be able to rekindle his/her love for you again. However, you must reconsider you decision to avoid making a wrong move.

Concerning women, once they have sex with their ex, they normally feel that they are back together with their ex; however this isn’t the case for men. You must understand that men think differently when it comes to relationship.

First, it’s important to note that men value what is rare. In other words, the things that men work for are the only things that are important to them. This simply means that a man will commit to a woman he feels is rare. Therefore, if you make yourself special, valuable and rare, your ex will become committed to you. That is why you must not sleep with him until you both have reunited. This doesn’t mean you have to “pressure” him to reunite. The idea of getting back together must be his. At the same time, you must avoid having sex with him. 

Having sex with your ex is a tempting proposition sometimes but just before you call your ex and have sex with him or her,  read 7 reasons why  it’s a bad idea.


Before you have sex with your ex, you need to remember you broke up with your ex for a reason. Having sex with your ex won’t fix things but would only end up complicating things between you and your ex.


You would find it really difficult moving on if you continue to have sex with your ex. You might say it’s just casual sex but the truth is that the more sex you have with your ex, the harder it will become for you to move on.


Having sex with your ex is like a disaster waiting to happen. When you have sex with your ex, the sex sometimes makes one of the two to still expect exclusivity and this only complicate things.


Why complicate things in your life when there are lots of other people you can choose to have sex with? Why go back to have sex with someone who rejected you? Doing this would only destroy your self-esteem.


You can’t move on to someone better if you keep having sex with your ex. Having sex with your ex strengthens the bond with your ex and makes it difficult for you to move on.


Having sex with your ex will only bring back memories you really want to forget and most of the memories will definitely be bad memories you are trying to forget.


Having sex with your ex won’t bring back your ex no matter how good the sex was. So why don’t you move on and share that experience with someone who really wants to be with you. 😉 


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Women love “Bad Boys”… but why?

Have you ever wonder why women attracted to “bad boys”? Is it that “mystery” that they usually  carry on their character and their style appearance? Why can’t  just let them go?

 What is it about bad boys that even entices the most logical of girls? A study from The University of British Colombia proved that women are much more attracted to men who carry proud and/or angry expressions. Men who were all smiles received little to no love. And bad boys usually seem mysterious or just mean. Have you ever seen a bad boy smile and expose a more tender side to their personality? Definitely not.

They chase what they can’t get: Nothing turns a woman off more than a needy partner. After all if a guy kept running after a woman then she will assume that he is desperate and because women are biologically wired to get attracted to the strong man that needy type turns them off completely.

It’s a challenge: Most women want a challenge that can help them get a self esteem boost. Noting can make a woman feel better about herself than taming that wild guy who isn’t emotionally available. In other words, women go for these men hoping to change them to the better but they usually find themselves stuck.

It’s this  inexplicable reason: When we can’t figure him out, but we want to. We don’t know what he feels, but we won’t stop until we figure it out. And of course there’s the game playing.

They bring out your wild side: Bad boys are bad, which means that they are also wild. Who better to bring out our wild sides than a man who can’t be tamed.

A good way to go against your parents: You can rebel against your parents? Date a bad boy! That’s one reason why women find them so appealing, especially when we are teenage girls. “

“Oozing” Masculinity: Bad guys almost always win over nice guys because they’re oozing with masculinity and palpable sex appeal. It’s the fearlessness exuding in bad guys that hook women up. Most women are attracted to tough, dangerous and strong guys because it means they can’t be pushed over or manipulated.

They give excitment: Bad boys are anything but predictable. They ride motorcycles and they take risks, they won’t call a woman for days and then they’ll call her out of the blue. While it doesn’t make sense, this is exciting to woman and women respond to this sort of behavior like moths to a flame. 😎 😎


How to make a man jealous…

 Let’s talk about jealous today. They say that jealousy is like “salt in food”… a little jealousy helps, because it is a good mate retention strategy. It helps us keep our partners because we become more attuned to potential threats to our relationship.

Jealousy can be either healthy or unhealthy. Healthy jealousy is a means to guard your territory and comes from a sincere care and commitment to a relationship. On the other hand, unhealthy jealousy manifests itself through lies, threats, self-pity, and feelings of inadequacy, inferiority and insecurity. 

Some of us are more and some less prone to jealousy, but the truth is that no one is entirely immune: each of us has his or her weak point, some of us are simply lucky enough to have it well hidden and hard to reach.

Some girls like to get a guy’s attention by making him jealous – But does it really work?

 The outcome depends on two things:

1.What do you want to achieve as an end result?

2.What are your real reasons for doing it in the first place?

Let’s see some ways to make him jealous… but be carefull to not overdo… a little jealous never hurts…

1.”I am busy today”. It’s not good if he is used to you always being there for him. Why don’t you turn off your phone for a couple of hours and get some time for yourself, or go get a drink with your friends? Why don’t you reschedule the lunch because something more important popped up? Why don’t you wait for a one  hour to answer his text?  Maybe you didn’t hear your phone, maybe you forgot, maybe, you were doing something you weren’t supposed to do!

2. Invite your male friend. As much as he says that he understands that you’re having male friends, there’s no chance that he’s not going to be a little bit bothered by how close you are with all of them.

3. Organize a lady’s night. Give him very little info about where you’re going, who will be there, when you’re getting back, just go out with your girlfriends… don’t answer the phone. You’re on the dance floor and you’re having fun!

4. Change somehing to your appearance. One effective way to grab your guy’s attention is to look amazing. Change something up about your hair, style, or start exercising so that your body will look really fit. The most important thing is to look and feel confident, because confidence in a woman can be one of the most attractive things to a guy.

5.Now that Valentine’s is around the corner, “play a game” with your girlfriends to send each other red roses. Don’t include a card. When it arrives, look happy. Don’t prance around him asking if he sent it. Act like it’s just another day.

6.When you go out with your friends, it helps to have proof of the fun times you had without him. Snap some photos and post them on Facebook or just show them to him when you get home. He’ll be jealous that you were having  fun without him around.

7.Flirt with other men. If he’s not getting the attention, someone else is and that is bound to make him ferociously jealous. But with this tip, you need to be extra careful. You don’t want to take the flirting overboard and make it look like you’re a bit of a floozy. Just keep it simple and casual. Laugh with other men, ask other guys if they’ve been working out. Nothing overboard, yet all comments that flatter another man other than the one you’re trying to make jealous.

8.Talk about your ex boyfriend. He might not admit it, but the truth is that they are all bothered with our exes at some level. Some of them don’t like seeing us with them, some are ticked off when they hear about your exes, and some are even brave enough to demand from us to completely lose contact with them.

On the other hand, if you constantly provoke your boyfriend to be jealous, eventually, he might stop trusting you altogether!  But if all you want is a few sparks to warm up the relationship, or to grab a bit of his attention, and you just wonder how to make him jealous then you willfind this post quite helping…  😉  😉