Is he cheating on you? Let’s deal it…

 19-05-2016, Our English Articles

Is he cheating on you? Let’s deal it…

Today we are going to speak about cheating… Finding out that your boyfriend is cheating on you can make you lose your sanity and sleep. Before I begin on relationship advice on cheating, let’s understand what are the signs of boyfriend cheating on you. Signs of cheating.  1. Lack of intimacy and deteriorating sex life is one of the first signs. A person who is involved in another a love affair, is most likely to abstain from physical intimacy. 2. The next sign boyfriend is cheating, is emotional distance. Emotional promiscuity or infidelity is the starting point of cheating in a relationship. A cheating partner will stop discussing his fears, hopes, and dreams with you. Read more

25 Flaming HOT Sex Tips to keep passion alive!

Regardless of whether you’re in a relationship or just dating at the moment, these sex tips are something that will help you keep passion alive and burning!

  • Don’t ignore his nipples…
  • Men like daring women so go explore and take initiatives sexually!
  • Women love massages, candles, soft words and a man who caresses them.
  • Men adore lingerie and a woman who loves wearing it.
  • They ALSO enjoy it when she “accidentally” forgets to wear it while out for the evening.
  • Booze-less sex is better! Drunken Sex means your senses are not as alive and there are good chances he won’t remember you the next day!
  • Make time for daytime sex! Sex before bed can become a routine, plus you are usually too tired to get creative…
  • Sext!
  • Always listen to what your partner says they enjoy during sex- they say it for a reason.
  • connect, listen, be there: that’s how you will read each other’s feeling and you will not have to ask.
  • After your man gets home from work, bring him a drink. He needs time to unwind, not 50 questions.

  • Men: after your orgasm sex is NOT over!
  • Scream out every now and then-let the neighbors get jealous. It is ok.
  • Don’t ask someone if they would like to have sex! Be bold people!
  • Complement your partner and make them feel really good about themselves, especially their bodies (for women and men!)
  • Shave her legs or paint her toenails every so often- you will surprised of what may follow…
  • Dress sexy for them, even at home. Especially at home…
  • Tell each other what you desire in bed. Guide each other with your hands. You are human, not a starfish. So don’t just lie there.
  • Confidence is the biggest turn on!
  • Take your time during sex; don’t be in a rush for the finish line. Let yourself be surprised of what new might happen, even if you are together for years. Especially if you are together for years!
  • Don’t assume that one orgasm is all they are good for. (That goes for men too, ladies.)
  • Have sex outside the friggin bedroom!
  • Make-out on the couch, elevator or the car like a teenager if you’ve been together for a while.
  • Tell them often that you love and want them. Don’t assume they know. Like confidence, honestly spoken words like that can be the biggest turn on…
  • Read or watch something sexy together to spice things up if you feel like your sex life is becoming repetitive.

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Relationship Advice that will lead you to Love!

The dating game can be really difficult and nerve wracking at times. Here’s what you can do to get past your nerves and self-consciousness so you can eventually build a genuine and loving relationship.  

Focus on the present moment

To combat first-date nerves, you may focus your attention outward, rather than on your internal thoughts and feelings. Try to be fully present in the moment: in what your date is saying and doing and what’s going on around you. This will help take your mind off distracting doubts, worries, and insecurities.

Show genuine interest.

The best way to connect with someone new is to be curious. When you’re truly curious about someone else’s thoughts, feelings, experiences, stories, and opinions, it shows—and they’ll like you for it. You’ll come across as far more attractive and interesting than if you spend your time trying to promote yourself to your date.

Never hide

Showing interest in others can’t be faked. If you’re just pretending to listen or care, your date will pick up on it. No one likes to be manipulated or placated. Rather than helping you connect and make a good impression, your efforts will most likely backfire. If you aren’t genuinely interested in your date, there is little point in pursuing the relationship further.

The cell phone stays in your purse.  

You can’t truly pay attention to anyone or forge a genuine connection when you’re multitasking. Nonverbal communication—subtle gestures, expressions, and other visual cues—tell us a lot about what’s going on in the other person’s head and how they’re perceiving and responding to us. But they’re easy to miss unless you are tuned in.

Get out of your mind and into your heart

Relationships are built on the connections we make in accordance with what happens from one moment to the next. If our intention is to be in a relationship, we can’t be somewhere else in our thoughts. 😉 


10 “good spots” of dating in your 40’s

I know! Dating is difficult for everyone, especialy as the years pass by… either if you are a woman or a man  the standars of dating are changing when you are 40…

For men is a little beat easier. A man at 40’s is still able to pick up his dates, to enjoy it more without stress, and avoid relationships as he things he is still young for things like that… On the other hand for ladies is much more complicated…  It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single, attractive, heterosexual woman over the age of 40 must be in need of a man. Or so Carrie Bradshaw would have you believe; and she is mostly right.

However dating in 40’s still can be very enjoyble and sometimes much more better than a dating in your 30’s because you have the maturity to organize it better and behave smarter… The truth is that dating does change when you get older…and in many ways, for the better. 

Let’s find out why…

1.You don’t waste your time in unmatched dates.You’ve figured out what traits and lifestyles just don’t work for youYou know what you want and what type of person you are attracted…

2.Men and women in their 40s  generally more self-assured. They know what they want out of a relationship, what they are looking for in a mate and are not afraid to ask for it. 

3.You have learned from your previous relationship experiences. You can take inventory of what time has taught you so that you do not fall into old traps. Knowing yourself better and being able to size up others more skillfully gives you a big advantage.

4. You likely have greater financial freedom to enjoy fancy dinners and getaways. The days of scraping together enough money for a movie are over!

5.Romance is more enjoyableYou are more sexually confident and liberated than you were in your youth.

6. You have figured out what is important. You can put away the “list” of perfect characteristics that you are seeking in your date. Physical appearance, the type of car one drives and other status symbols take a back seat to more important personal attributes.

7.There is no ticking of the biological clock. Without the pressures of getting married and having children, you can enter into relationships for the “right” reasons, not because you are running out of fertile years.

8.You are known what you’re doing on bed. Now you have the experience to enjoy it more…

9.You are a pro at keeping your own identity. You don’t have to worry about losing yourself in a relationship—losing your friendships, your career drive, your ability to carve out personal time—because you’re a pro at doing you. So you can date with confidence…

10.You realized time is precious. Now that your life is about half way over, you’ve come to terms with the fact that you won’t live forever. It’s something we say we know in our 20’s but we don’t really factor it into our decisions. If you had, think of all the people you wouldn’t have wasted time on! Now, you’re acutely aware that time is precious and you’re determined to spend it with the right people…