Are you thinking about your ex… and especially the sex with him/her… Stop!!! Before you go back havimg sex with your ex mate just consider some points and then decide wheather is good or bad to moveon this step…
“Should you have sex with your ex ?” If you are asking this question, chances are that you think that by having sex with your ex you will be able to rekindle his/her love for you again. However, you must reconsider you decision to avoid making a wrong move.
Concerning women, once they have sex with their ex, they normally feel that they are back together with their ex; however this isn’t the case for men. You must understand that men think differently when it comes to relationship.
First, it’s important to note that men value what is rare. In other words, the things that men work for are the only things that are important to them. This simply means that a man will commit to a woman he feels is rare. Therefore, if you make yourself special, valuable and rare, your ex will become committed to you. That is why you must not sleep with him until you both have reunited. This doesn’t mean you have to “pressure” him to reunite. The idea of getting back together must be his. At the same time, you must avoid having sex with him.
Having sex with your ex is a tempting proposition sometimes but just before you call your ex and have sex with him or her, read 7 reasons why it’s a bad idea.
1.YOU BROKE UP WITH YOUR EX FOR A REASON
Before you have sex with your ex, you need to remember you broke up with your ex for a reason. Having sex with your ex won’t fix things but would only end up complicating things between you and your ex.
2. HAVING SEX WITH YOUR EX WILL HOLD YOU BACK
You would find it really difficult moving on if you continue to have sex with your ex. You might say it’s just casual sex but the truth is that the more sex you have with your ex, the harder it will become for you to move on.
3. COMPLICATES THINGS
Having sex with your ex is like a disaster waiting to happen. When you have sex with your ex, the sex sometimes makes one of the two to still expect exclusivity and this only complicate things.
4. THERE ARE LOTS OF OTHER PEOPLE YOU CAN HAVE SEX WITH
Why complicate things in your life when there are lots of other people you can choose to have sex with? Why go back to have sex with someone who rejected you? Doing this would only destroy your self-esteem.
5. HAVING SEX WITH YOUR EX STRENGTHENS THE BOND
You can’t move on to someone better if you keep having sex with your ex. Having sex with your ex strengthens the bond with your ex and makes it difficult for you to move on.
6. BRINGS BACK MEMORIES
Having sex with your ex will only bring back memories you really want to forget and most of the memories will definitely be bad memories you are trying to forget.
7. HAVING SEX WITH YOUR EX WON’T BRING BACK YOUR EX
Having sex with your ex won’t bring back your ex no matter how good the sex was. So why don’t you move on and share that experience with someone who really wants to be with you. 😉