January 12, 2016 Harriet Brookes

Dating your best friend: Reasons to do it…

Is there true friendship between men and women? Or sometime, someday a subconscious attraction will be created? Αnd what about dating your best friend? Many questions about one thing… the attraction between best friends!

There’s nothing quite like feeling a spark of attraction between you and someone you just met, but lately, we’ve been wondering whether it’s better to date a friend, or at least somebody we’ve known longer than just a couple of weeks, and who knows more about us than just our name and phone number.

The transition from best friends to boyfriend and girlfriend worked on shows like Friends… and give us the possibility to fall in love your best friend and even more to get married him/her…

But which are the reasons of start thinking a dating with your best friend:

1.You already know what the other person wants. You already know each other. You know each other’s likes, dislikes, needs and desires. This is perfect material to date.You know well the way of his/her living and which are the priorities, the goals that has based on his/her character… so dating with your best friend it will much more easy than with everyone else… 

2.He’s familiar with your bad side. Let’s face it, during the first few months of dating someone new, it’s easy to hold yourself together and pretend like you don’t have a dark side… As a friend, will not only be aware of your personal weaknesses, but  will know how to respond to them in a way that is constructive to the relationship and to your desire to improve yourself.

3.You’re comfortable with each other. It takes a few weeks (if not longer) to feel completely at ease with somebody new. When dating someone who started out as a friend, you can skip the neurotic “I need to impress him” phase and go straight to wearing no make up.

4.You can tell them anything. You know that you can tell your best friend anything, right? When you start dating each other, nothing should change, unless, of course, you let it change.

5.You know each other relationship past history. If you date your best friend, then one of the benefits would be that you already know about each other’s relationship history. You know what went wrong in the past, so you know what to avoid.

6.Having a lot in common. Of course, you and your best friend do have a lot in common. This is great, because now that you are dating, you can enjoy doing those things you have in common together.

7. Last but not least, won’t cheat you with your best friend. Obviously, this won’t happen because your dating is also your best friend… so you don’t have to worry about this. Great advantage!

 

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