March 31, 2016 Harriet Brookes

Dating a boy and not a real man…

There are many differences between a real man and a guy who is behaving just like a boy. You must know all the differences and make your choices before dating. You prefer a man or a boy? Read carefully  the following features of a guy – boy and keep in mind all these symptoms  in case he’s incapable of growing up…

1.He only cares about himself 😎 

He has no interest in your hopes and dreams unless they revolve around him; he only cares that his needs are being met. An actual adult would have already figured out he’s not the center of the goddamn universe.

2.He lives with his parents 😯 

This is the reddest of red flags. How can you expect to have an adult relationship with someone who’s never left the nest?

3.He expects from you to be his mom 😆 

If he thinks being in a relationship means he never has to cook, do his laundry or clean up after himself (or needs you to at least remind him to do those things), you’re in pretty warped territory. Let him know you’re more than a maid he gets to bang.

4.He never take the blame  😡 

Nothing’s ever his fault, is it? A man doesn’t worry about who’s at fault — it doesn’t matter. There’s nothing productive about assigning or arguing about blame. If something’s wrong, just fix it.

5.He doesn’t care of you 😡 

And I don’t mean financially. You’re an independent, 21st-century woman — you don’t need a man to pay your bills. But if he’s not bringing you chicken soup when you’re sick or giving you rides when your car’s in the shop, this is not a guy you can depend on.

6.He can’t fix anything 😕 

Maybe it’s an old gender role, but men are expected to be reasonably handy. He needs to know how to change a tire, mount a towel rack or at the very least.

7.He manipulates you  🙁 

Knowing how to manipulate people into doing what you want is actually a pretty good skill to have. But using it in a relationship is pretty rotten.

8.He can’t take a decision 🙄 

When you ask a guy where he wants to go for dinner and he says something like, “I don’t care,” or “Wherever you want,” it’s usually true. But the difference between a man and a boy is that the man makes a suggestion anyway.

9. He use sex to solve his problems 😳 

Make-up sex is awesome, but it only really counts if the issue is resolved beforehand. Otherwise it’s just a distraction that temporarily tables the problem and allows it to get worse.

10. He is not reliable  😕 

This one’s just common sense. If you can’t count on him to be there when you need him, he’s no kind of man you want in your life.


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