November 25, 2015 Harriet Brookes

3 online dating mistakes

Are you fan of dating sites? You have already became  a member and you want to know how you will succeed… Maybe you don’t have the experience but even if you have, you should be very carefull…

Online dating is now the second-most common way couples meet, with 30 to 40 percent of singles.  Dating online has its own set of rules! If you’re looking to take your online love offline, don’t make these three critical mistakes:

1.Get Offline Quick!

Don’t chat or email online for too long. Instead take your new romance offline quickly. The progression of your communication should go something like this: an initial online contact, a phone conversation, an offline date.

If you start spending too much time chatting online or exchanging emails, one of two things tends to happen: you either establish an artificial level of comfort way too quickly and end up going out as “friends,” or you just don’t end up going out at all. 

Finally, to debunk a huge myth, if a woman is into you or attracted to your profile, she will give you her number if you ask! There’s this interesting “phenomenon” I keep hearing about where guys think they need to build comfort with a woman first, before she will give out her number. This only applies if she’s not really into you. 

2.Pictures: Quality and Quantity Count!

Don’t put too many or too few photos on your profile. Too many pictures “screams”, “I spent way too long making this profile and needed to share absolutely every single type of moment in my life!” Sharing too few photos though makes it seem like you just don’t care.. You need at least three pictures and definitely no more than five or six. Most importantly, make sure they’re recent!

3.Don’t be Lazy.

Respond to your messages!  You mustI love getting online messages and  respond to every single one, even if it’s a polite way to let the nice man on the other end of that computer screen know you  just not interested. However, you should not responding to messages from people you’re actually into!  Even if it’s an honest reply along the lines of, “I had met someone else and chose not to date for a while.” The new object of your affection will appreciate the honest and hopefully reply within a few days.

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