Dirty talk… It’s time to give it a try…

Today we’re having a different talk,  a dirty talk… Are you using dirty words in sex or as a foreplay in your relationship? No? Maybe you should try it…

Since one of the most important things in a relationship is communication, it only makes sense that when things get hot and heavy, you should continue to have a dialogue. Yes, I’m suggesting dirty talk, and yes, if you haven’t given it a try during sex or foreplay, it’s time. It’s actually less scary than it seems.

Whether you choose to talk dirty in bed, via sexting, or like to indulge in good old-fashioned phone sex, talking dirty is definitely something everyone should try. Here are 5 hot reasons why:

1. Helps you learn what you are comfortable with.  It can make some people feel vulnerable to put themselves out there in such a vocal way, and then there are those who just can’t say certain words, like “pussy,” or “cock,” which, to be honest, are the words you’re often going for when you’re talking dirty. There’s also the challenge of overcoming how you view words in the real world and how your view them in the bedroom. 

2. It’s awesome foreplay. As any doctor or sex therapist will tell you, foreplay is an extremely important part of sex, especially for women. It takes women far longer to get aroused than men, and that’s why they don’t orgasm as quickly as men do. For us, foreplay is essential. If you can start with some dirty talk, then you’ll be tantalizing each other in ways that are just as important as physical foreplay. Quickies are fun, but if you have the time to take your time, then do it. Set aside a full 20 minutes of just talking dirty to each other before you even remove your clothes and touch each other. You’ll see the difference it makes.

3. You will totally surplised yourself. It’s always nice when you can still surprise yourself, isn’t it? And the thing is, when you push yourself to do something that you’ve never done, you just might realize it was made for you. Talking graphically about how you want to be touched and how you’re going to touch your partner might revolutionize your sex life — but you’ll ever find out unless you give it a try.

4. You will surprised your mate. There are plenty of ways to spice things up in your long-term relationshipwhen things are feeling a bit stale. If your sex life has become the stuff of missionary right before bed, then talking dirty to your partner is an easy way to switch things up a bit. Chances are the dirty things you’ve been thinking, but haven’t said out loud yet, will truly surprise them. You can whisper in your partner’s ear, making sure your lips just slightly graze their earlobe. From there, depending on their response, you can continue, or let them take over and tell you what they’re thinking, too.

5. It leads to better sex. If you’re talking honestly, openly, and graphically about what you want to get out of every sexual experience, how can it not lead to better sex? With communication and all this dirty talk, there are no secrets — and neither you nor your partner is forced to try to figure out what that moan or facial expression really means. Sex shouldn’t be a riddle.


Read also: http://dating-news.net/index.php/sex-toys-help-your-relationship-your-health/







Follow our Summer Fitness Date Bucket List…

Summer is finally here and our mood change… Also dates are different in summer… are more romantic and you have more things to do… you can travel together, go vacations and spend more time out with your new date…

Are you planning some dates this summer? Here’s a challenge for you—try our Summer Fitness Date bucket list, with 10 fun, fit activities to do with your date. You’ll be feeling better than ever, and you’ll have a partner to hold you accountable. Plus, these dates will be so fun, you might forget you’re exercising!

1.Map a new running route and go for a running date on the boardwalk or through some trails.

2. Try AcroYoga for some partner work and trust building.

3. Try a hike neither of you has been to before, whether it’s in your neighborhood or a road-trip away


4. Go for a night swim (because why not?!).

5. Rent kayaks (or a tandem kayak), pack a picnic, and kayak to a park or beach for lunch.

6. Go for a bike ride through your city or a new one!

7. Take a dancing lesson together, like tango or salsa!

8. Plan a camping or backpacking trip.

9. Learn to surf together. Being out in the ocean will turn up the adrenaline

10. Going on vacation? Go snorkeling or scuba diving, just the two of you


Η επιστήμη αποφάνθηκε για το πρώτο ραντεβού… και τις κινήσεις mat που πρέπει να κάνετε…

img-thing27-05-2016, Our Greek Articles,

Όλοι συμφωνούμε ότι το πρώτο ραντεβού είναι το πιο ωραίο μέρος σε μια γνωριμία και σχέση… το πρώτο σκίρτημα, το πρώτο συναίσθημα και άφθονο πάθος και ρομαντισμός… Το μεγάλο πρόβλημα με τα πρώτα ραντεβού, είναι πως ποτέ δεν είσαι σίγουρος για το τι ακριβώς πρέπει να κάνεις, έτσι ώστε ν’ αφήσεις τις καλύτερες δυνατές εντυπώσεις. Όχι πια. Τα πράγματα αναμένεται να γίνουν πολύ πιο εύκολα, χάρη στην πρόσφατη έρευνα των Πανεπιστημίων του Στάνφορντ και της Καλιφόρνια. Οι ερευνητικές ομάδες των πανεπιστημίων, διαπίστωσαν ποια είναι η σωστή τακτική που πρέπει ν’ ακολουθήσουμε, προκειμένου να κάνουμε το πρώτο μας ραντεβού πετυχημένο. Κοινώς: κωδικοποίησαν όλα όσα πρέπει να πούμε ή να κάνουμε για να την εντυπωσιάσουμε. Read more

Do & Dont’s of Social Media Dating

 Dating has changed….Social media has transformed the dating landscape. Every day more and ore people meet their next date using social network… That’s why you should learn the rules of social media dating, and turn those ‘likes’ into love.

  1. DO. Snapchat: Personally, I’m a fan of snapchatting. It’s easy, fun, and more entertaining than texting. BUT only snap him if he reciprocates your snaps…because if he stops responding to your semi-attractive selfies…then it just gets a little weird.
  2. DON’T: mistake ‘Friending’ with ‘Meeting in person’. Both have value, but if you’re serious about meeting someone, prioritize face-to-face meetings over virtual connections.
  3. DO: follow up! If you’ve enjoyed meeting someone, tell them so with a simple note, message or text afterwards. Common courtesy and kindness are never outdated.
  4. DON’T: be creepy. If someone’s not interested in you, ‘Facebook stalking’ or ‘Sexting’ them will annoy them, and likely ruin any chance that they’ll introduce you to their hot friend who might be perfect for you!
  5. DO: take your time. Not everything in life is made to happen at the speed of light. Take the time to really get to know somebody by spending quality time together, doing things that you both enjoy.
  6. DON’T: rush it. Changing your Facebook status to ‘in a relationship’ is not an acceptable way of letting someone know you want to be with them. Talk about it first, and respect their feelings if they would prefer to keep your relationship status private.
  7. DO: be social! Dating is a numbers game, so connecting with new people on social media can expand your personal network, and put some spark in your dating life.
  8. DON’T: be a ‘text spammer’! Sending endless texts or messages to someone before meeting them in person can send the message that you’re not serious… or simply not someone they want to meet in person.
  9. DO: be open-minded! Social media is here to stay, and helps many people feel more connected in their world. Whether you love it or hate it, be respectful of your partner’s views on social media, even if they differ from yours.
  10. DO.Take it easy with pictures of the two of you on Instagram: Different people have different preferences when starting a new relationship, but if you are just in the beginning stages of hooking up with someone (or if you have a sense of whether he’s into “going public” with you) be careful about how many pictures you upload to Instagram and/or Facebook. Although you might really like someone and want to show everyone your happy, cloud 9 bliss…your boy toy might not be so keen on the idea right away. After all, once a couple-y pic of the two of you shows up on Facebook, you might as well be dating!
  11. DON’T: Avoid “like” to  all of his/her pictures: Like. Like. Like. STOP. Liking a picture or “favorite-ing” a tweet every once in a while is fine. It’ll put you on his/her radar and let him/her know you’re thinking about him…but before you get all click happy, make sure you’re not coming off as too aggressive, especially if the two of you are still trying to figure out your relationship. It’s tempting, yes, but you will be much happier in the long run if you go a little more under the radar.


Read also: http://dating-news.net/index.php/online-dating-alert-10-red-flags-not-to-ignore/



Swinging: Would you ever try it?

American-flag-With-Heart-Shape-PC881026-05-2016, Our American Articles

A new modern way of sexual freedom for couples called swinging is came up before some years and a lot of couples said why not… While the term “swinging” may be a throwback to the 70s and the days of Plato’s Retreat, more and more modern couples are hooking up with other couples, either informally or through networks or clubs.  And, of course, like all things online, the Internet has amplified these opportunities and made it easier to find couples and clubs in a neighborhood near you. As with most sexual activities, there haven’t been many studies into the prevalence of swinging – and many people who do it don’t necessarily want to admit it – but some experts believe that there could be as many 15 million Americans swinging on a regular basis. Chances are you have a friend or neighbor who is swinging. Read more

I 4 vantaggi di una relazione aperta

26-05-2016, Our Italian Articles

I 4 vantaggi di una relazione aperta

Che ne pensate delle relazioni aperte? Ci sono vantaggi in questa impostazione ? In inglese, le “relazioni aperte” sono definite come “Open Relationships”, termini che, in entrambi le lingue, fanno riferimento a una relazione interpersonale in cui le parti decidono di voler stare insieme, optando per la “poligamia”, uscendo e facendo sesso con più partner.  Quindi specifichiamo: se tradisci il/la partner e quest’ultimo/a non lo sa, sei un fedifrago-adultero e non sei in una relazione aperta, per quella ci vuole il consenso di ambo le parti. Alcuni di noi si trovano in queste relazioni, le motivazioni possono essere varie: non ci si vuole impegnare in maniera definitiva, si vuole la libertà di avere altre esperienze (sessuali), non si vuole sottostare alla propria gelosia o a quella dell’altro. Libertà è comunque la parola chiave.

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Speed dating study shows that women are more picky…

Are women more choosy on date than men? What do you thing? Women are twice as choosy as men when they go speed dating, research suggests. Why might that be?

However, a recent study into speed dating habits concluded that if men and women go to an evening and have 22 separate dates, men are keen to see about five women again, while women would only choose to see two again, on average. That means that for every offer a woman makes, she has roughly a 50-50 chance that the man will want to see her again too. But for every offer a man makes, he only has a one in five chance that the desire to meet again is reciprocated.

The research was done by economists Michele Belot from the University of Edinburgh and her colleague Marco Francesconi from the University of Essex, who collected data from 84 speed dating events involving 3,600 people in the UK.

But why are men less fussy?

“This is something that evolutionary psychologists and biologists do recognise,” says Belot. “We know that across a whole range of behaviours women tend to take fewer risks.

“They relate this to the fact that making mistakes are much more costly for women than for men because of childbearing. So obviously if you make a mistake in dating the wrong man and having a relationship with the wrong man, you might have nine months carrying a child, then caring for a child. While for men, the costs are lower.”

“For both men and women, education and professional status matters. We found that women prefer taller men and men prefer slimmer women,” says Belot.

People marry people very similar to themselves – from the same socio-economic background for example. And economists argue that this stops social mobility between generations.

For instance, people from rich privileged backgrounds marry each other, while people from more disadvantaged backgrounds marry each other.

But speed dating shows that people are not too fixed in their views of who they should date, says Belot, if they are given the opportunity.

Finally which is your opinion? What do you thing about speed dating? Are women more picky with men?


Read also: http://dating-news.net/index.php/expansive-posture-the-attraction-key-on-dating-apps-according-to-a-new-study/


I like flirting with others when i’m in a relationship…

Are you in a relationship but you also like flirting with other persons? You like meeting new people eventhough you love your mate?

Ever heard the lyric, “I only have eyes for you?” Well, what happens when you get into a relationship, but still seem to notice other attractive people? Does settling down mean that you need to become blinded by love?

Over time, sheltering yourself from anyone you may find attractive can cause resentment in a relationship and make you think they are holding you back. If you have to hold yourself back from just talking to someone you find attractive in fear that you may cheat, maybe it is time to reevaluate your relationship: just talking shouldn’t be a problem if that’s furthest you take it. Friendly banter can help you feel comfortable going out without your boyfriend or girlfriend and make you happier when you do see them…

Nearly 50 percent of those polled by the Health and Wellness Association reported feeling young and sexy when they are flirting, and another 36.8 percent said flirting gives them a natural high.

Flirting can actually make you feel sexier in your relationship. Knowing that others find you attractive can boost your confidence and make you feel more attractive.

By no means am I promoting trying to pick up everyone you see if you are in a relationship. As great as flirting can be for your confidence, remember the golden rule of “treat others how you want to be treated.” Don’t throw yourself over someone else right in front of your boyfriend or girlfriend, as this can cause one of relationships biggest problems, jealousy. Make sure you don’t cross lines from flirting into cheating.

But, it is quite possible (and absolutely normal) you will feel a minor connection with someone else down the road. When I say, “flirting” with others, I don’t mean picking up a bunch of people and getting their phone numbers. There is quite a fine line between “flirting” and “cheating.” Even flirting has its obvious boundaries; one shouldn’t be exchanging phone numbers and going out with someone else.

Once you approach and talk to that “someone else,” you will notice that once the conversation is over, your attraction will slightly fade. We’ve all heard the saying, “You want what you can’t have.” The major reason we like others while we’re in relationships is because we subconsciously believe we can’t talk, flirt orhang out with someone we’re attracted to. Therefore, the thought of cheating keeps growing and we start looking for exits in order to break free. The solution to silencing those thoughts is to flirt, flirt, flirt. Once you do, you will realize the idea of being “trapped” was just all in your head.

Being separate individuals means we are all free. You and your partner cannot act as one unit in all parts of life. You are free to flirt with, talk to and like other people. Not crossing the line of flirting into cheating has to do with respect and your freedom won’t extend that far if you respect your partner enough. By being one unit 24/7, your partner cannot and will not be able to continue giving you the attention and confidence boosts you need. But, others certainly can! When you flirt with other people, you’ll get an enormous boost of self-confidence from knowing you’re still desirable and not “trapped” with your partner.

Most Importantly…

The most important rule about flirting while in a relationship is to flirt with yourboyfriend or girlfriend. Relationships can get boring and too comfortable if you do not try and keep them exciting. Hit on your significant other while you are out and act like they are someone you are trying to pick up, for example; it can keep things fun and will help you maintain a healthy relationship.


Read also: http://dating-news.net/index.php/5-flirting-types-what-type-is-yours/





L’arte del bacio… come baciare & cosa non fare…

24-05-2016, Our Italian Articles

Il valore dei baci è importante… Cos’è il bacio per gli uomini e per le donne? Un bacio è un apostrofo rosa tra le parole ti amo”, dice Cyrano De Bergerac, il famoso personaggio creato da Edmond Rostand. Ogni occasione è buona per darne e per riceverne, perché di baci non se ne ha mai abbastanza quando si ama qualcuno. Il bacio viene considerato come l’anticamera dell’amore Il primo bacio è il più importante, perché da esso si capisce se c’è davvero del feeling con chi stiamo baciando e se la storia che sta iniziando diventerà passione oppure o no. Si mescolano gli odori, le sensazioni e il contatto diventa subito intimo. Inutile negarlo: chi non sa baciare (o se il suo modo di baciare non attira il partner) avrà fallito il primo appello e, probabilmente, non riuscirà ad arrivare al secondo appuntamento. Read more