Amici di letto: “un gioco moderno” tra amici

  26-03-2016, Our Italian Articles

In America li chiamano “friends benefit”, amici di letto, ovvero quelle amicizie condite da rapporti sessuali, che possono avere cadenza regolare o meno, poco importa. Tutti sappiamo quali sono i benefici degli amici di letto. Il grande beneficio è, appunto, il letto, il potere essere amico o amica di una persona e fare sesso con lei.Amici di letto: benefici. 1) Avere un partner sessuale senza avere un fidanzato. Un po’ come usare una macchina ogni volta che vuoi, ma non dover pagare l’assicurazione. Fantastico… 2) Avere una relazione tranquilla e sicura e non una relazione responsabilizzante e impegnativa. Read more

Sesso al primo appuntamento? Ci stò o No?

24-03-2016, Our Italian Articles

ll primo appuntamento è sempre foriero di domande: una delle risposte che però sembra essere la più adatta alla situazione è non fare sesso la prima volta. Alcune non ce la fanno, la passione è troppo forte, o magari sperano di legare la persona a sé con il sesso, augurandosi un futuro rapporto di coppia. Ma non è così. Immancabile, il copione si ripete: lui vi piace, vi invita fuori, la vostra mente va al dopocena immediatamente dopo aver preso accordi. “E se la situazione si fa incandescente? Ci stò o no?”. Facile rispondere se si desidera solo una storia da una notte, un po’ più complicato se invece il desiderio è quello di iniziare una relazione a lungo termine. 
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My boyfriend wants a secret relationship…

You are dating a gorgeous guy and everything seems to be perfect except from the fact that  he is asking you to keep your relationship secret? There are a number of reasons why he might be doing his best to keep your relationship a secret:

The first possibility is that you’re not the only girl he’s going out with. Society has a ton of names for this situation, but if he is going so far as to ask you to hide your feelings and status from your friends, it’s likely because he doesn’t want them to know. There could very well be another girl in the picture, and he doesn’t want the news getting back to her. 😎 

Another reason could be that he just sees you as temporary, and doesn’t want to spoil his chances with someone else. He may be into one of your friends, and by keeping them in the dark about being with you, he can still pursue them (or anyone else) when you’re not around. This is the same idea as having a “safety net” relationship, where you know if nothing better comes along, there is a person you kept hanging to go back to.

Also, he could just be emotionally or physically using you… many people just want someone so they can feel wanted, even if they don’t feel any emotions whatsoever. This is about as unhealthy as it gets, but it’s still a possibility.   🙁 

One more reason for having a relationship with someone secretly is because you worry what other people will think.  This is a reason that mainly affect women but sometimes also a man can have a secret relationship because he want to keep away his close family and friends from this relationhip. Maybe your parents or friends would not approve of this person. You should really stop and consider why they wouldn’t approve before having a secret relationship. Your family and friends really just want what’s best for you in most cases. Now and then there are situations where they just want to impose their will on you. But for the most part, they’re looking out for you.
Do they feel the person will hurt you, or doesn’t treat you right? Has that person given them reason to think the relationship might not be a good one? If they disapprove on those grounds, you can hardly blame them. In fact, keeping the relationship a secret hints that you might not disagree completely.

Finally, in a healthy relationship, there is no reason to hide. When you keep something secret, it usually means you are afraid of someone finding out, or are embarrassed or ashamed about it, or both. This can make YOU feel like you are unworthy of being his public girlfriend. Ask yourself why he would want to keep this a secret. If your best friend were in a relationship like this, what would you advise her to do? 😉 

“Prescription” for a broken heart…

Feeling pain in your heart because of a break up is very difficult and some times unthinkable… you feel sick, you can’t do nothing for yourself except of feeling depressed and crying…You blame yourself and looking for a way to heal your wounds…  😥 
Being heartbroken is a pain that no one can understand until they have experienced it for themselves. You obviously have, therefore are aware of how fragile your heart is right now.  🙁 

Healing a broken heart will take time, but is not impossible, though it may feel that way at the time. It is never an easy process to go through, but with the right “prescription”, you will be on your way to recovery and happiness again. 😀 

The first thing you should keep in mind is that it is okay to feel sad and grieve about what happened and that you are not stupid for doing so. It is perfectly normal to feel sad and cry after a break up. You have invested most of your time and all of your love and interest into your ex-partner; therefore will go through a sad and painful withdrawal. It is notable that you not grieve all on your own. Sure, there will be times when you will just want to be alone and undisturbed. However, it is important that you talk to your friends and family about it. Talking about it is not only healthy, but will mend your heart quicker because you will release the thoughts and facts that are hurting you so much. Seeking professional advice will be a great help to you as well because your mind will open up and see new perspectives and understandings of what happened. It will help you gather your strength, pick yourself up, and find the happiness you deserve to have.

Accepting the fact that you and your ex-partner are no longer together is a necessity if you are going to start mending your broken heart. If you catch yourself unable to function due to constantly thinking about your ex or repeatedly calling or visiting him or her for another chance, then chances are you are suffering from love addiction and should seek counseling. Discontinuing a serious relationship is emotionally challenging and can drive you to do things that are unhealthy for your self-being. To avoid entering such hazardous areas, keep yourself occupied.

Go out with your friends and family to help get your mind off the break up. It is best to spend as less time alone as you can in the first few weeks of your breakup so that your emotions can slowly and patiently form back into their normal pattern.

Fight the thoughts that tell you that you are a failure and are to blame for the end of your relationship. When a relationship ends it means that the two of you were no longer compatible and that always takes two, not just you. Instead of beating yourself up over what has transpired, examine your ex-relationship by listing the things you enjoyed most about it and then the things that disappointed you and what you believe really caused the breakup. Look at the relationship as a learning experience and an opportunity to improve your relationship skills, and a way to realize what you truly need and want from a romantic relationship. 😉

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How to handle a beautiful & sexy girlfriend…

 American-flag-With-Heart-Shape-PC8810 23-03-2016, Our American Articles

You are lucky because you have a very beautiful and sexy girlfriend but sometimes you feel insecurity and you end up not being able to handle it.Most men, when questioned, would welcome the opportunity to date and marry an extremely beautiful woman. In fact, most men dream of precisely such a scenario – this is why the “trophy wife” phenomenon exists. But there are also some men who are anxius if they have a very beautiful girlfriend...This causes stress, fighting, and ultimately, the demise of an otherwise wonderful relationship… You should be happy that you have a significant other that is so physically attractive.  Read more

10 tips to get romantic with your girlfriend

23-03-2016, Our English Articles


You are the guy who can’t be romantic? Men aren’t supposed to like romance, right? Well, that’s the theory, anyway!You can’t express easily romance and sensitive feelings to your girlfriend? Understand what romance means and why it is important and learn what romantic aspects there are to your own character. No one has a heart made of stone, however tough their exterior.If you don’t consider yourself romantic then you are wrong. I don’t know of anyone on this planet who doesn’t have the ability to fall in love. Therefore if you can fall in love, you can be romantic too. Romance is not in the grand gestures, it is in the small details. Read more

Ideas for a perfect spring date

 My absolute favorite season is finally here and i have a great mood to talk you about more romantic and fresh issues… Will you agree with the idea to sare some perfect ways for the ideal spring date?

Winter is finally gone and the weather has taken a turn for the better. Long gone are the cold days filled with snow and icy-cold temperatures. Spring is one of the best seasons to enjoy time outside with a person  you’re dating or with your significant other. With perfect weather and an over-abundance of things to see and do, spring is definitely the ideal time to go on dates and really enjoy yourself.

Let’s see which type of spring date you can choose:

Have lunch outdoor

Find an outdoor cafe and reserve a table! If you don’t want to make your own food and have a picnic, enjoy the beautiful springtime weather by eating at an outdoor restaurant or cafe. Many restaurants offer an outside eating area where you’re able to be served and enjoy your meal.

Romantic dinner at a winery

Wine on a warm spring day is nothing short of amazing. Some wineries are open during the springtime, so why not go on a date and try all sorts of different wines? You’ll easily learn whether or not you two are wine compatible, and if you’re able to find a wine that you really like, you’ll be able to take a bottle home with you. Toast to a good date and hopefully a future to your blossoming relationship!

What about a picnic

A picnic is one of the best ways to enjoy time outside, along with a nice meal. Picnics are perfect for spring and they make for a fun and relaxing  date. Make the picnic unique by whipping up your own food and other goodies, and be sure to ask your date what type of food he/she prefers!

Go for a beach walk

Though beaches are most commonly visited during the summer months, beat the crowd and spend a few hours with your date by taking a walk up and down the shore line. A beach stroll is especially nice if you want to go on a romantic type of date that sets a nice scene. Put your toes in the water, write in the sand, and enjoy each others’ company. 😎 

Go on theme park

Theme parks make for a great spring date, especially if you and your date are daring enough to get on rollercoasters and other types of rides. Theme parks are way more about rollercoasters though. They make for a good day to walk around, talk, play games. 😀 




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Writing a love letter… Here are some romantic tips…

Today we are going to give you some tips in case you strive to be a romantic lover. Major tool in the romance department is the love letter. As long as love (and writing utensils) has existed, so has the love letter. It has been the go-to way for millions of people throughout history to confess or reiterate their feelings of love for another.

 Nowdays, many couples leave notes for one another in the bathroom or in their bedroom, where most of the intimacy takes place! This gives them something to hold on to and think, about it also lets them know that you are thinking of them. But what about writing a real love letter to your mate?

Firstly, a love letter is one of the few letters that should be written out on paper rather than typed. It shows that you care enough to take the time to write it out by hand and adds a personal touch to it. A love letter is an expression of one’s feeling to another in written form.

Put a picture of your significant other in front of you to help inspire you while writing and also you can put on some light romantic music, or read some romantic literature to get you in the mood and give you some ideas on what to write about.

Remember to write from your heart and be sincere about what you say. You  should open up a letter with “Dear” if you are early on in the relationship, but if you are at a deeper stage, “My Beloved”, or “To My One and Only” may be more appropriate.

Your letter can be naughty and uncensored or can be just suggestive. It should be a nice letter with clean words but make sure that it has the properties of an underlying naughty theme. Leaving a little bit to the imagination can also create a very “hot” mate. In your letter you can express to your lover what you want to do to them and how you plan on making their night special. You can also explore fantasy and get the reaction of your lover to help you know if they are open to something new and maybe a little more wild than what you usually do.

How about a fantasy story? People are very stimulated by what they read. A great way to get the mind in gear and prepare for a wild night is to get the imagination flowing. A great way to kick-start the imagination is to write a fantasy romantic story. You could use your names or change the names and situations to suit you. This is so great because most of our fantasies only happen in our dream, but you can write a story and then possibly live it out with your partner. When you suggest something in your letter your lover will know that you are interested and willing!

A love poem is another great way to get the attention of your lover and spice it up a little. Deliver this “love poem” with a single red rose and watch your lover’s eyes light up. Everybody loves a poem, especially if it is personalized and quite seductive.

Don’t close your letter with “Sincerely”, use, “With warmest regards” (if you are at an early stage of your relationship), “Love”, “Yours always”, “Your beloved” (if you are at a later stage of your relationship) or something else along those lines.

And last but no least don’t forget to put a small dab of cologne or perfume on your letter before you seal it up and sending it out… 😉  😉 


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