How to deal with loneliness after a breakup

The first scaring feeling after a break up is the fear of loneliness. That’s why some people can’t get over  a break up… they don’t want to stay alone… After all, the fear of being alone is one of the biggest reasons for people to get into relationships.

You may have thought that the most difficult thing you’ve ever had to do was to get out of bed the morning after your breakup. For some that may be the case and everything else is all downhill. For others, it’s facing all of this and dealing with the fallout when it feels as though your entire circle of friends or support system has been lost at the same time. That is a LONELY feeling. But you don’t have to let that feeling swallow you whole. You do have some options available to you. Perhaps it’s time for you to enjoy a change of pace or of scenery.

1.The first thing you need to do is go out and make new friends or surround yourself with all your friends.

Go out with your friends, make new contacts, even if you have to push yourself and try to go back to your life as it was before the relationship. If you make an effort to establish normalcy in your life, half the battle is won there itself. Some people even stay away from their friends after a breakup and this is a great mistake because it intensifies the feelings of loneliness.

2.Here’s also a fun thing you can do to get rid of your loneliness. Go out of your house and walk into any restaurant/movie theatre or bar that you see.

Going out on your own will boost your self esteem because you will not be scared of people judging you. At times, friends and family might fail to see your point of view because they all have their own theories of what they think is best for you. So, go ahead, introduce yourself to a couple of strangers and have a general conversation with them.

3.Don’t make your bed your best friend

After a breakup, your bed and couch will seem to be your best friends but do not get attracted to them. What you need is an active social life to deal with all the loneliness, not more seclusion.

4.Pick up a new hobby

Now could be a good time to do something that you have always thought of doing. Take dance lessons. Start a blog. Volunteer with the homeless. Before you know it you will forget all about old what’s his (or her) name.

5. Start chatting

A good idea is to make new contacts online. If you thing that is too early for new meetings, you can try online meetings and contacts. This is a good way if you want to get over your loneliness slowly and enjoyable…

6.Get a part time job

Make some extra money while you recover from your breakup. Get a seasonal job that will put you in a new environment and allow you to meet new people whom you might make friends with.

7. Stop thinking your ex and think yourself

Ιf you still feel lonely after a breakup even though you have done those things then the problem might be with proper recovering and not with loneliness. Some people mistake missing their Exes with loneliness. It’s a totally normal thing to miss your Ex occasionally after breaking up but if those feelings are always with you then this means that you haven’t properly recovered. In such a case you don’t have to work on getting your Ex back but you just have to analyze the reasons why you still miss that person and see if you can fulfill those needs in a different way. 😀  😉 




Dating Tips for Finding True Love?

American-flag-With-Heart-Shape-PC8810 27-02-2015, Our American Articles

Dating Tips for Finding True Love

Single and looking for a loving relationship? The search is hard enough without the emotional baggage we all bring to the table. Then it gets even more tempting, as we have trouble finding a connection, to buy into the destructive myths and scenarios about love and relationships. That’s why you may want to start by re- evaluating your beliefs and expectations about love—especially if you’ve had some painful experiences or you have a poor track record when it comes to loving and meaningful relationships. Learning how to see the truth in a situation, watch for red flags, and deal with distorted ideas we all have about love, will slowly but surely put you on the path to finding a loving and lasting relationship.
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Surefire Dating Tips To Help You Find Love

  29-02-2016, Our English Articles


The dating game can be really difficult and nerve wracking at times. Here’s what you can do to get past your nerves and self-consciousness so you can eventually find love…Stay balanced and keep things in perspective! Don’t make your search for a relationship the centre of your life. Concentrate on activities you enjoy, your career, health, and relationships with family and friends. When you focus on keeping yourself happy, it will keep your life balanced and make you a more interesting person when you do meet someone special.  First impressions are NOT always reliable. Especially when it comes to Internet dating, people don’t always accurately portray themselves.  Read more

Get out of your mind and into your heart!

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When we start looking for a romantic relationship that will last or have just entered into a new relationship, many of us do so with a predetermined set of often unrealistic expectations. We already have made up our mind as how the person should look and behave, how the relationship should progress, and the roles each partner should fulfill. These demands and expectation vary from person to person and usually are based on your family history, influence of your peer group, your past experiences, or even ideals portrayed in movies and TV shows. However, no letting go of these unrealistic expectations can and will make any potential partner seem inadequate and any new relationship feel disappointing. Read more

Έρευνα- ταμπού: Πόσους ερωτικούς παρτενέρ έχουν γυναίκες και άνδρες σήμερα;

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Σύμφωνα με νέα ευρήματα, την τελευταία εικοσαετία η σεξουαλική ζωή των γυναικών έχει γίνει πιο τολμηρή και πλέον συνάπτουν σχέσεις με το διπλάσιο αριθμό αντρών. Ερευνητές από το University College of London ρίχνουν με πρόσφατη μελέτη τους φως σε ένα θέμα που για την πλειοψηφία των ανθρώπων παραμένει ταμπού και που αφορά τον αριθμό των σεξουαλικών συντρόφων ανδρών και γυναικών.  Οι αριθμοί- ταμπού αποκαλύπτονται  Στο πλαίσιο της μελέτης, οι ερευνητές ζήτησαν από 15.000 ενήλικες εθελοντές να συμπληρώσουν ερωτηματολόγια. Όπως προέκυψε από τις απαντήσεις τους, η γυναίκα έχει πλέον 8 συντρόφους κατά τη διάρκεια της ζωής της, συγκριτικά με 4 που είχε τη δεκαετία του ’90. Την ίδια ώρα, οι άνδρες φαίνεται να έχουν 12 σύντροφοι κατά μέσο όρο.  Read more

Relationship Advice that will lead you to Love!

The dating game can be really difficult and nerve wracking at times. Here’s what you can do to get past your nerves and self-consciousness so you can eventually build a genuine and loving relationship.  

Focus on the present moment

To combat first-date nerves, you may focus your attention outward, rather than on your internal thoughts and feelings. Try to be fully present in the moment: in what your date is saying and doing and what’s going on around you. This will help take your mind off distracting doubts, worries, and insecurities.

Show genuine interest.

The best way to connect with someone new is to be curious. When you’re truly curious about someone else’s thoughts, feelings, experiences, stories, and opinions, it shows—and they’ll like you for it. You’ll come across as far more attractive and interesting than if you spend your time trying to promote yourself to your date.

Never hide

Showing interest in others can’t be faked. If you’re just pretending to listen or care, your date will pick up on it. No one likes to be manipulated or placated. Rather than helping you connect and make a good impression, your efforts will most likely backfire. If you aren’t genuinely interested in your date, there is little point in pursuing the relationship further.

The cell phone stays in your purse.  

You can’t truly pay attention to anyone or forge a genuine connection when you’re multitasking. Nonverbal communication—subtle gestures, expressions, and other visual cues—tell us a lot about what’s going on in the other person’s head and how they’re perceiving and responding to us. But they’re easy to miss unless you are tuned in.

Get out of your mind and into your heart

Relationships are built on the connections we make in accordance with what happens from one moment to the next. If our intention is to be in a relationship, we can’t be somewhere else in our thoughts. 😉 


Women love “Bad Boys”… but why?

Have you ever wonder why women attracted to “bad boys”? Is it that “mystery” that they usually  carry on their character and their style appearance? Why can’t  just let them go?

 What is it about bad boys that even entices the most logical of girls? A study from The University of British Colombia proved that women are much more attracted to men who carry proud and/or angry expressions. Men who were all smiles received little to no love. And bad boys usually seem mysterious or just mean. Have you ever seen a bad boy smile and expose a more tender side to their personality? Definitely not.

They chase what they can’t get: Nothing turns a woman off more than a needy partner. After all if a guy kept running after a woman then she will assume that he is desperate and because women are biologically wired to get attracted to the strong man that needy type turns them off completely.

It’s a challenge: Most women want a challenge that can help them get a self esteem boost. Noting can make a woman feel better about herself than taming that wild guy who isn’t emotionally available. In other words, women go for these men hoping to change them to the better but they usually find themselves stuck.

It’s this  inexplicable reason: When we can’t figure him out, but we want to. We don’t know what he feels, but we won’t stop until we figure it out. And of course there’s the game playing.

They bring out your wild side: Bad boys are bad, which means that they are also wild. Who better to bring out our wild sides than a man who can’t be tamed.

A good way to go against your parents: You can rebel against your parents? Date a bad boy! That’s one reason why women find them so appealing, especially when we are teenage girls. “

“Oozing” Masculinity: Bad guys almost always win over nice guys because they’re oozing with masculinity and palpable sex appeal. It’s the fearlessness exuding in bad guys that hook women up. Most women are attracted to tough, dangerous and strong guys because it means they can’t be pushed over or manipulated.

They give excitment: Bad boys are anything but predictable. They ride motorcycles and they take risks, they won’t call a woman for days and then they’ll call her out of the blue. While it doesn’t make sense, this is exciting to woman and women respond to this sort of behavior like moths to a flame. 😎 😎


Μα γιατί είμαι ακόμα ελεύθερη;

img-thing24-02-2016, Our Greek Articles

 Οι τρεις λόγοι που δεν θες να ακούσεις, αλλά πρέπει… Ψάχνεις, αλλά για κάποιο λόγο δεν τα καταφέρνεις να βρεις αυτό που θέλεις; Οι φίλες σου όλες είναι πια σε σχέση, και αρχίζεις να το παίρνεις προσωπικά; Μην το κάνεις! Δεν σου λείπει τίποτα και τα πράγματα είναι πιο απλά από όσο τα φτιάχνεις στο μυαλό σου.
Το γεγονός κάνεις τα αδύνατα δυνατά για να είσαι σε μια σχέση είναι πιθανόν ο λόγος που είσαι ακόμα μόνη. Επίσης δεν είσαι μόνη. Τα πιο χαρακτηριστικά λάθη που κάνεις, τα κάνουν και άπειρες ακόμα γυναίκες. Και είναι τα εξής… Read more

Dating tips to save you some time, energy and heartache.


To find what you are looking for in this Wild new Dating World is easier said than done… We know that as well as you do, so we once again gathered and scanned all the infos and hard earned personal advice we could find and came up with this 6 love- life saving dating tips for you. And Yes. You can thank us later.

  1. To find a date or a partner should be only one of many goals you can have at once. Nothing turns people more off than seeing someone who is literally obsessed with this issue. There is a fine line between making it a priority in your life to find a partner and obsessing about it.
  2. when people tell you the truth, believe them. Like, when you really like a guy and you just started dating BUT your mutual friends keep mentioning stories (aka anecdotes) about him vomiting outside his favorite pub every Friday night, don’t assume they are lying. Nor that they are mean. Believe them, and see whether you like something like that in your life.
  3. It’s not about convincing someone that you are worthy, or good enough. You are. Whether you believe it or not. It’s all about finding someone you can stand to spend a ridiculous amount of time with. So see if his good and dark sides match with your good and dark sides.
  4. Develop a sensitive gaydar. Trust us: it will make things much easier for you.
  5. Stop worrying so much about a the potential future Mr Perfect rejecting you for being too fat, too short, too blonde, or whatever. First of all there is no Mr Prefect. We are all perfectly imperfect. And there are a bunch of people out there that you would reject, for your reasons. And that ok too. There actually is this thing called “not the right fit”. The sooner you are ok with that, the happier you’ll be.
  6. A first date is not an audition for marriage. It’s just a tryout for a second date. And a chance to have a nice time and – who knows- fall in love! And no one ever succeeded in falling in while at the same time analyzing in her mind the details of the churches’ flower arrangements… 😉 



Keep the romance alive… here are 8 ways…

Romance is keeping alive a relationship… creates passion and the flame of love… 

It is not enough to date and woo the woman but also ensure that the magic of the beginning phase of a relationship stays consistently throughout. This ensures longevity and good health for any relationship. When you are in a relationship for a long time sometimes there is a sense of the romance fizzling out.

It is quite natural for anyone to feel like the romance has died. But rather than fret and worry about it, start thinking of the different ways you can keep the romance alive.

There are many things that can be done… here are some some of them:

1.Ideally, most people go out on romantic vacations to rekindle their initial romance. This is a good way in trying to bring back the magic in the relationship.

2.Find some things that excite you, that make you feel romantic.Places and “dates” that might cost practically nothing can breathe fresh life and romance into your relationship – like walks, driving to different areas of town just to stroll through a bookstore or have coffee, museums, observatories, planatariums.

3.Surprise your partner. Small surprises also make the everyday special… a small gift, a surprise dinner out etc.

4.Write old fashion love letters. There is nothing like the power of the written word. The idea that a person would sit and attempt to convey their feeling through words is not only a heart warming gesture, but one that can be renewed over and over again through each reread.

5.Make your morning time special by bringing your partner a cup of coffee while he or she is still in bed. If you’re willing and able you can also serve them breakfast in bed. It will make your partner feel cherished and the kindness will be returned.

6.Take the time to tell your partner that they look wonderful, beautiful, sexy or great. We all have doubts about our looks and hearing that we are attractive to our partners is a very important part of creating a romantic relationship.

7. Have some fun time with your partner. This may call for some light and playful activities such as chasing each other around at the yard, having a tickle fest, watching hilarious shows on TV or the theater, or just about anything that lets you have clean fun. When you laugh with your partner a lot, this releases stress, pressure and any negative emotions quickly. Plus, laughter energizes the two of you – both body and mind.

8. Say more often ” i love you”. Say “I love you” often but don’t be too predictable. It will look like you’re saying it just because you feel that you should.

Follow these tips to keep the romance  in your relationship and your love will go from strength to strength. It doesn’t matter how long you have been together, there’s no need to let the romance go out of your relationship so it becomes a habit rather than a pleasure… 😉  😉