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Month: December 2015
7 reasons why dating a funny guy…
Humor is very important thing in our life… gives us strength, joy and elevates our mood… furthermore on dating and relationships, humor is a very positive and necessary thing… Women prefer dating with funny guys and with great sence of humor… Funny guys have a certain charm about them that no girl can deny.
Going out with a funny guy will ensure you get to go on super fun dates… Here are some of the reasons why girls are hooked to witty guys…
1.Going out with a funny guy never gets boring. He can make you laugh at the drop of a hat. It makes things exciting because you have to be quick to keep up with him.
2. A funny guy is usually the life of the party. He can ease awkward social situations with a well-placed joke at the right time. Dating a ‘wise guy’ is easy and you never have to worry about leaving him alone in a room full of strangers.
3.He bring a smile to your face: You can’t be angry with a funny man for too long. One cute smirk and you have forgotten why you were upset with him to begin with.He knows exactly how to make you laugh through tears, and it’s both a blessing and a curse.
4.He is full of confidence. He may not come across as confident but he is fully secure in himself. Behind his goofy facade is an emotional person so be careful with your jibes when you are together.
5.He makes you comfortable. By saying what’s on everyone’s mind, making light of awkward situations and always seeing the bright side, he makes everyone around him feel comfortable. When you’re comfortable with your partner, you won’t feel scared to communicate what you need
6.Is more sexy. Sexual chemistry comes from that spark, the energy between two people which can develop with the connection of personalities… the funnier you are the sexier you become…
7.He makes you feel safe: You can be yourself around him. Girls feel safe and comfortable around “goofy guys”. Your walls immediately melt away. His demeanour teaches you to laugh at yourself and the absurdities of life.
Me, my ego and my love…
How many of you have broken up from a relationship because you could not sacrifise your big ego?
The ego it’s the part of us that feels the need to be special. It’s that part of us that seeks approval – and by very definition it is a part of us that feels lacking in some way. Being egotistical is generally considered negative, while having high levels of self-esteem is positive. Ego is not actually bad because it gives us an identity and self-worth. Our ego will keep us from being pushed around and manipulated. However, ego will cause relationship conflicts if we allow it to control our perception and decision.
Couples often are not willing to compromise with their ego. Each one would like to have his or her own way. In case of an argument, they would not like to accept the fact that they are at fault. Such kind of an attitude leads to disharmony and eventually a breakup. Since ego is a major cause of a relationship breaking down, it is better to understand how ego can affect a relationship.
#.Each partner feels superior to the other and is not willing to listen to the other person.
#.Making compromises may be difficult. In order to make a compromise, one has to forgot one’s ego. Some couples may have problems doing so.
People with big egos are often insecure and trying to cover up those insecurities by pretending to be important or better than everyone else. Those with big egos lack confidence and self-love. Conversely, those with high self-esteem have confidence in their own abilities, know their shortcomings and love themselves.
Let’s see what can we do to reduce our big ego and move on to a healthy relationship:
1.Give more of your time and talent to others. This will help you see the needs of other people. Practice generousity with selfless motives.
2.Give more love. As you love more, give more to a relationship and expect less, you will develop a more fulfilling relationship.
3.Be open to differences. During conversations, just listen. Accept and respect the different opinion and value each person’s uniqueness.
4.Stop comlaining. Complaining keeps us locked in negativity. Who wants to hang out with someone who complains all the time?
5. Accept the rejection and failure. To combat the fear of rejection, you need to love yourself and know that you deserve positivity in your life. You must accept that life isn’t without failures.
True love can only happen when a relationship is completely free of ego, so it is the perfect test of your relationship’s foundations. The paradox is that true love is quite easily created in the mind by the very thing that wants it to be sincere… your ego!
6 types of women that men avoid…
Now, it’s time for a list with the types of women which men usually avoid. The truth is that there are no perfect women and no perfect men. Girls, similarly to guys can be separated into various groups according to their personality and behavior. As there are things women hate about men, there are also quite a few things that men hate about women.
Although dating is not about putting people into categories, there are some personalities that just make a guy want to turn and run.Let’s see 6 of them:
The Desperate woman. This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog–right after the first date! It may seem nice at first but it can easily get out of control to where you can’t think straight without her by your side. There’s nothing that scares a man more than a woman who constantly sings marriage into his ear when he’s not ready to say goodbye to bachelorhood.
The Bimbo. Is an attractive but empty-heded lady who is nothing more than a pretty body and a pretty face. With such type of women men cannot have an intellectual conversation, because they will misinterpret everything men say and they come up with their own conclusions. men want be with that type of women for a short fun but can’t have a serious relationship with gilrs like that…
The Feminist . This type of woman can never be pleased by a man and she believes that men are the cause of all the pains and suffering of society. Guys don’t want to waste any time with this type of woman because anything that they do will always be negative to her. Feminists believe that are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the right way”… and guys hate be with a women who are stronger than them or more independent…
The flirter – girl. She goes around flirting with one guy and another. She can’t be loyal to one man. She cheats on her man over and over again. Even if she tries, she couldn’t stay faithful to any man. Most men wish to have a long-term relationship so they stay away from such type of women.
Super – strong girl. How can a man date a woman whose muscles are bigger than his? Super-strong woman creates a feeling of inferiority in her man. Men like being protective and prefer to follow the traditional roll of the strong partner in a relationship. They prefer women who are more sensitive, something like”kittens -women”…
Woman- child. This kind of woman refuse to grow up. She is looking for a man to pamper her and mostly for a father, not a partner… At first, men might like such childish ways, but then they start hating to pamper.
What about you? Do you avoid the above types of women? Do you have something to add? Share your thoughts, please!
6 types of men that women avoid…
If you are a single woman and you desperate looking for a relationship or just a new date you must be careful with the type of man you want… your previous experiences were bad because always in the beginning he looks like Mr. Perfect… he sweeps you off your cynical feet with nice dinners, roses, thoughtful gestures. The sex is incredible. You want to introduce him to your mom. But before you fall hook, line and sinker, stop!
Maybe now you should make a list of the types of men you must avoid in case next time you will more lucky!
Below are eight types of guys that women consistently stay away from:
The narcissistic guy. One type of attitude guys have that women avoid is being too narcissistic and self-contained. Most women feel that this type of guy is obsessed with himself and would rather spend his time toning his muscles and looking good than on a date with them.
The liar. This guy fabricates stories about pretty much anything in hopes of getting laid instead of just being honest about his life or his desire for a casual fling. While the little white lies about past conquests, jobs, exes, qualifications, and experiences may seem harmless, most women don’t want to deal with a guy who can’t or won’t tell the truth.
The man-child. This guy is clinging to his glory days when life was less complicated and responsibility was minimal. He’s obsessed with video games, frequently attends keg parties and considers Pizza Fun one of the major food groups. These men are the ones who can’t keep a job, blame everyone else for their own stupidity and laziness, and are constantly outraged that the world is not giving them respect.
The guy who has never been single. This guy goes from one relationship to the next with little or no padding in between. There is no better place to hide from yourself than in a relationship. This man will probably hang over you and make your life unbearable…
The irresponsible guy (mainly financially). Here is a red flag for women. Most women don’t want to deal with a guy who can’t seem to spend his money easily or the guy who overdrawing his bank account(s) and maxing out credit cards without being able to afford all this…
The desperate guy. The desperate man may have a strong want and desire to have a relationship but can be very oppressive annoying guy. His behaviors can indicate low-self esteem and a host of other issues that turn women off and can actually be viewed as creepy and disturbing.
So, ladies, be careful with that types of men …it’s better to avoid a date with one of them!
10 ways to feel more confident about yourself…
If you want to have a great and healthy relationship you must first be good with yourself… Eventhough you try to fix the prefect date if you have low self -confidence you want be able to contact with others. The truth is that if you have a good sense of your own self-worth, you’ll be confident in your relationship…
One good thing that helps your confidence is positive thinking. Positive thinking is essential to self-confidence and the more you practice positive thoughts and behaviors, the more confident and self-assured you will feel.
So how do you make the shift to feeling more positive and confident?
1.Make a decision. Make a decision based on what your gut is telling you. It will make you feel stronger and allows you to practice trusting your inner voice. Trust your instinct and move on… Don’t wait from your friends, your family or your boyfriend/girlfriend to make decisions for you.
2.Say no. Don’t say yes when you want to say no. You’re letting yourself down if you do favors you don’t want to do. If you don’t like something don’t be afraid to refuse it… you should try to do things or to be with persons that you have only choose by yourself…
3. Try something new. Confidence doesn’t come from perfection, it comes from effort. Τry to meet different kind of people and discover new opportunities.
4. Dress your best. Sure your appearance can affect how others perceive you, but what about the way you perceive yourself? You needn’t dress up, but do dress well. Each morning, choose clothes that look and feel good and that help to bring out the best you. There’s nothing like finding the perfect outfit: one that’s comfortable, that’s flattering and that says, “I know I look great
5.Keep your breath minty fresh. It’s staggeringly difficult to thrust yourself forth into the world with confidence and self-respect if flowers wilt at the opening of your mouth. Practice good oral hygiene and make judicious use of gum or breath mints. It will help you feel good about speaking up without fear of people passing out.
6. Make an eye- contact. One of the quickest ways to “appear” self-assured is to make eye-contact with whomever you’re speaking to. This will help you say what exactly you want without hesitation, especially when you are dating…
7. Exercise. Exercise eases anxiety, relieves stress, and slowly but surely will make you feel stronger and healthier. There are endless benefits for bringing yourself to the gym, which include stress relief and confidence-building. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of finishing an intense workout.
8. Fake it. Have you ever heard the expression “fake it till you make it”? By imitating confidence, you will eventually learn to accept your successes and grow real confidence.
9. Prepare and practise. Before going to any meeting should prepare and practice and take out all necessary details, to help yourself. This shakes your confidence
10.Be a player. This is a truth. Being a player who never quits , is how your confidence manifest itself via you. Everyone plays, sometimes winning sometimes losing.
On the other hand overconfidence is also a bad feeling. You must have a correct measure of your confidence. Believe to yourself and don’t give up…
When is the right time to say “I love you”
Everyone is looking for love… How doesn’t want love? Even those who are tough and independent deeply inside crave love…
The most overused and misunderstood phrase worldwide is the phrase: “I love you”… the sweetest and most romantic words ever. But if you meet someone and feel something special for, this doesn’t mean that you really love him/her? When is the appropriate time to say “i love you”?
We’re talking about time here. Most people think that time is the ultimate basis for saying those words. Too soon, too early, just right – those are the factors that people base it on.
The truth is that there is no specific time or place to say “I love you.” You can say it whenever you want, wherever you want, and to whomever you want.
The only thing that you really need to think about is whether you really feel it in your heart. Is it really love? Or are you just expressing something that you think is love?
If you have any doubts about that, here are some guidelines on when it’s time to say it:
When you trust your partner. Usually, love doesn’t come until you trust a person. By that time, you’ll be able to say those three little words without any doubts or second guessing. We’ll never know what can happen after, but it feels a little safer to say it to someone that you trust completely.
After spending time together. Not after the first date. You hardly know a person at this point, so it’s typically too soon to say that you love a stranger. If it’s love at first sight, however, it’s up to you to decide whether you’re willing to take a risk that quickly.
When you have no doubts about. You’re not thinking about why you shouldn’t say it. You know that you don’t want to loose that person and you always feel wonderful when you are together.
When you feel butterflies, tightness in your stomach. That loopy feeling you get in your chest is your body’s way of saying, “We’re happy. Just go with it. Is the easiest marker to watch out for when you want to say “I love you.”
Not before or during sex. It’s better to say the words when you’re during sex, so you can differentiate between lustful love and romantic love.
When you’re not worried about saying it or anxious to hear the other person’s response.This means that you are sure about your feelings and you know that is a true love…
There’s no textbook, formula for saying it…so instead of stressing about it you should just say it… Enjoy the moment and this important feeling that will change your life!
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7 habbits women should ditch after 30’…
Before you hit the age of 30′ you are more free with your relationships and your life… over 30′ is the age you turn on a different way of life. Start thinking more about your future and you are more mature to contact seriously with others…
Especially women when they reach the age of 30 have different needs and dreams… start thinking more about a relationship, a marriage and worried if ever find the right guy.
As soon as you reach 30, you might start thinking that you won’t be having much luck in finding your dream man. But don’t worry, crossing 30 should not put you on the panic mode. You will be glad to find that there are a lot of decent, kind, and available men who are also looking for someone to love, and that could just be you.
But if you want to have a good dating when you are 30′ you should update some old habbits… Here are some you should ditch after 30:
1.Hopping every guy is “the one”.Dating is supposed to be fun. So drop the serious, desperate-to-settle down shtick and just have a good time…
2.Sleeping with him in the first date.But don’t be surprised if he doesn’t call the next day. Seriously. It doesn’t matter what kind of “connection” you had.
3. Dating someone who lives with their parents. You need something more at this age.
4.Dancing like you did with 21-year-olds at parties. You should now be more serious and more elegant in your style. This doesn’t mean that you should not have fun and dance with your date. Laugh, dance and enjoy like 30-years-old women do…
5. Expecting a man/knight in shining armor to swoop in and save you. You can still dream the ideal man but don’t be disappointed if he’s not the prince you had read about in fairy tales when you were a kid
6.Expecting a man to do all. You are a big girl now and you can do some first steps before him…
7.Crushing on Justin Bieber. You must change your preferences regarding the type of man that impress you…