Today we are going to give you some tips in case you strive to be a romantic lover. Major tool in the romance department is the love letter. As long as love (and writing utensils) has existed, so has the love letter. It has been the go-to way for millions of people throughout history to confess or reiterate their feelings of love for another.
Nowdays, many couples leave notes for one another in the bathroom or in their bedroom, where most of the intimacy takes place! This gives them something to hold on to and think, about it also lets them know that you are thinking of them. But what about writing a real love letter to your mate?
Firstly, a love letter is one of the few letters that should be written out on paper rather than typed. It shows that you care enough to take the time to write it out by hand and adds a personal touch to it. A love letter is an expression of one’s feeling to another in written form.
Put a picture of your significant other in front of you to help inspire you while writing and also you can put on some light romantic music, or read some romantic literature to get you in the mood and give you some ideas on what to write about.
Remember to write from your heart and be sincere about what you say. You should open up a letter with “Dear” if you are early on in the relationship, but if you are at a deeper stage, “My Beloved”, or “To My One and Only” may be more appropriate.
Your letter can be naughty and uncensored or can be just suggestive. It should be a nice letter with clean words but make sure that it has the properties of an underlying naughty theme. Leaving a little bit to the imagination can also create a very “hot” mate. In your letter you can express to your lover what you want to do to them and how you plan on making their night special. You can also explore fantasy and get the reaction of your lover to help you know if they are open to something new and maybe a little more wild than what you usually do.
How about a fantasy story? People are very stimulated by what they read. A great way to get the mind in gear and prepare for a wild night is to get the imagination flowing. A great way to kick-start the imagination is to write a fantasy romantic story. You could use your names or change the names and situations to suit you. This is so great because most of our fantasies only happen in our dream, but you can write a story and then possibly live it out with your partner. When you suggest something in your letter your lover will know that you are interested and willing!
A love poem is another great way to get the attention of your lover and spice it up a little. Deliver this “love poem” with a single red rose and watch your lover’s eyes light up. Everybody loves a poem, especially if it is personalized and quite seductive.
Don’t close your letter with “Sincerely”, use, “With warmest regards” (if you are at an early stage of your relationship), “Love”, “Yours always”, “Your beloved” (if you are at a later stage of your relationship) or something else along those lines.
And last but no least don’t forget to put a small dab of cologne or perfume on your letter before you seal it up and sending it out… 😉 😉