May 10, 2016 Harriet Brookes

Sex on the first date?

Here is how you will make it happen!

Its note easy and it has to be mutually desired, but hek why not? You can actually end up having sex on the first date, as long as you play your cards right!
Here are some tips on how to make her want to have sex on the first date with YOU:

1.  Be creative: Create a sensual and warm atmosphere
If you want to get yourself some first date sex, then you have to get sexy creative and create a sensual mood for the night.  Create an atmosphere where you can be alone with her without a lot of interruptions.  A quite booth in the corner of a restaurant can be all that you need to start things off just right with her. BUT: no matter what you do, keep in mind that the mood of the evening is one of the biggest determining factors of whether or not she will end up in YOUR bed…

2.  Be smart: not all talk should be sexual.
When you have her close to you and you are deep in conversation with her, it’s okay to throw in some sexual undertones to the back and forth banter, BUT,  you do not want to come on too strong with the sex talk.  If she thinks that the only thing on your mind is getting her in your bedroom, you most likely will not get what you want. Women are pretty protective of their image, and certainly not stupid, so if she thinks that all you are trying to do is tag another notch above your bedpost, well, she will hit the ground running.

3.  Be intimate: share something intimate with her.

Whether it’s a conversation about something intimate, or a physical act like a slow dance, you want to share some intimate experience with her before you try and get intimate in the way that YOU really want to.  When you have already shared a little intimacy in one form, it’s easier and more natural to share it in the physical form as well.

4. Be bold: kiss her first and do it good
Kissing is a natural prelude to sex, so you want to show her what you got in the kissing department.  Don’t wait for the moment when you want to lead her into your bedroom for you to go for the first kiss.  Instead, kiss her earlier in the evening and then make your move to take the kissing a little further as the night goes on.

5. Be generous: enjoy a long foreplay.
Don’t just rush into intercourse, you just met the girl for heavens sake! Take it slower and start with the foreplay with her.  Run your hands up and down her legs nice and slowly and kiss her on the neck and down her chest.  When you show her that the evening is all about pleasing her, she won’t feel like you are just out to get a little action.  She will feel that the two of you are sharing something more genuine and special, and something that she will enjoy as much as you will!


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